harrison9876
Don Juan
- Joined
- Aug 28, 2014
- Messages
- 121
- Reaction score
- 28
So...to keep it short...
Matched with a really cool girl...athletic, rock climber, artist...veeeeeerry interesting.
The past few matches I have had, after a few humorous/C&F messages back and forth, I have always casually told them to shoot me their number, and I'll hit them up. However...in every case, I have gotten a, "follow me on Instagram"; or "I'd like to get to know you better first"...or some other variant. My interest usually comes to a complete END...or I take it as a rejection and just move on.
So...with this one, as an experiment, I have let the messaging go on a bit longer than I probably should have...and in the course of that (as I hate messaging), I started to get a bit bored...and my own IL dropped slightly. It also seemed like her IL was also dropping...as the messages back and forth were a bit short and meaningless...
Anyway...today, I told her I wasn't really into messaging, but if she wanted to chat, to just shoot me her #.
Her response was:
"You know ...I am not that much of a fan of speaking on the phone...but I am down to meet for a cup of something or a walk if you'd like".
To be honest...I have never once met a girl from an online match...so it feels a bit odd...but I can see advantages in both scenarios...
Thoughts on how to proceed on this?
TIA
Matched with a really cool girl...athletic, rock climber, artist...veeeeeerry interesting.
The past few matches I have had, after a few humorous/C&F messages back and forth, I have always casually told them to shoot me their number, and I'll hit them up. However...in every case, I have gotten a, "follow me on Instagram"; or "I'd like to get to know you better first"...or some other variant. My interest usually comes to a complete END...or I take it as a rejection and just move on.
So...with this one, as an experiment, I have let the messaging go on a bit longer than I probably should have...and in the course of that (as I hate messaging), I started to get a bit bored...and my own IL dropped slightly. It also seemed like her IL was also dropping...as the messages back and forth were a bit short and meaningless...
Anyway...today, I told her I wasn't really into messaging, but if she wanted to chat, to just shoot me her #.
Her response was:
"You know ...I am not that much of a fan of speaking on the phone...but I am down to meet for a cup of something or a walk if you'd like".
To be honest...I have never once met a girl from an online match...so it feels a bit odd...but I can see advantages in both scenarios...
Thoughts on how to proceed on this?
TIA