it's a normal common phase. remember that phase when they were toddlers and suddenly had separation anxiety that didn't last that long?
it's similar. the bigger deal that is made out of it, the worse it gets.
just sit him down and tell him in your own way that this **** is getting old and isn't...
I actually have a friend who is bipolar manic depressive and right now she is having major loneliness issues and marriage problems bc of her disorder. she is so sad that she doesn't want to get up and do anything, only lay there. she has gained a bunch of weight and it is taking it's toll on...
a very long time ago, I learned that the very moment that I realized I was in a rut and felt lonely or depressed... that if I got off my a$$ and just started cleaning, it would chase a lonely moment away and my house would be clean. going thru the mechanics of doing physical labor mellowed my...
let her stew in it for the night. deal with it tomorrow if it comes up.
I would bet that she was feeling upset that you had other plans and she wanted off the phone right then.... so you wouldn't fight and you wouldn't hear her being upset.
and come to think of it.... that's actually a good...
oh dear. how young is she?
where in the world did she ever get any indication that she would be moving into your house? she just assumed because she has been dating you for a little while that you purchasing a home would equal her moving in immediately?
bless her heart. she thought you were...
he is saying that ending a relationship is much like swimming...
imagine swimming around in the pool with only one other person. you are having a wonderful time and then one of you pees in the pool. it doesn't really matter who peed in the pool... but sooner or later, you have to get out of...
what is weird... is the same women that know enough about video games to know that all the female characters are made to be nice looking / sexy.... actually play those games (because women that don't play the games don't know any of this) AND they themselves choose to play whichever female...
I honestly do not see how meeting up to rehash hurt is going to help either of you. especially if she has bpd issues. it just feels like looking for trouble. which is great news to your counselor because you will have to go back in there and talk through things to get it sorted out = $$ for them.
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