penkitten
Master Don Juan
a very long time ago, I learned that the very moment that I realized I was in a rut and felt lonely or depressed... that if I got off my a$$ and just started cleaning, it would chase a lonely moment away and my house would be clean. going thru the mechanics of doing physical labor mellowed my emotions out.
if I was angry, I would scrub the tub and the toilet. get on my knees and scrub the floor the old fashioned way.
now maybe not all of you are into housework , but you can find other things to do. go chop someone some firewood. mow the lawn. whatever gets you to that place that you mellow.
hobbies are great, but I can not find enjoyment when I am sad out of that. I have to work it out of me. and after I work it all out, I can enjoy life to it's fullest and my hobbies are pleasurable once more.
if I was angry, I would scrub the tub and the toilet. get on my knees and scrub the floor the old fashioned way.
now maybe not all of you are into housework , but you can find other things to do. go chop someone some firewood. mow the lawn. whatever gets you to that place that you mellow.
hobbies are great, but I can not find enjoyment when I am sad out of that. I have to work it out of me. and after I work it all out, I can enjoy life to it's fullest and my hobbies are pleasurable once more.