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  1. penkitten

    In serious need of help to overcome what I think is severe ONE-ITIS, its ruining me.

    not a guy, but i went through this before. basically when i knew that someone was not right for me, doing me dirty or realized that i just didn't want to end up with them... i would not have hesitation about moving on. however, when i "thought" someone was awesome and didn't want to see that...
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    Ex-Husband still around? Looking for your views...

    i really wish you had actually wrote a thread years and years ago that was titled "go dark- you are off the grid to them" because it is something that i really had to learn the hard way when i was very naive. this is really a hard lesson to learn especially when you don't want to listen, but...
  3. penkitten

    How do you get the damn vasectomy before 30

    you don't have to have children if you don't want any. if you seriously do not want kids, i suggest getting the procedure done now, before you find a woman who wants kids and doesn't want you to have the procedure.
  4. penkitten

    How do you get the damn vasectomy before 30

    my cousin went into his family doctor and explained that his wife had finally gotten pregnant but that he only wanted one child and wanted the vasectomy done right away and was referred to a specialist that day. he made an appointment and went in and explained why he wanted it done, and they...
  5. penkitten

    Can BPD woman really change?

    i do not believe they can change. it's something that is genetically built into their dna. therapy or meds might help issues or may even hinder and mask them.... but you are what you are. no one can change their dna.
  6. penkitten

    Ex-Husband still around? Looking for your views...

    neither of them are over each other. they may not be "doing it" right now, but it ain't over. if it was completely over, neither of them would give a crap about the other, or want to be spending weekends at each others houses and planning events in the future that the other will attend like...
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    sosuave is doing a LIVE broadcast September 10th! [merged]

    i encourage you to help with a list of topics that you would like to see. i especially like your idea for "qualifying" as a topic and hope that thunder puts it on the show in the very near future.
  8. penkitten

    sosuave is doing a LIVE broadcast September 10th! [merged]

    i don't think you have to read the whole thread aloud... i think just introduce the thread name (everyone has already read it ) and discuss the idealistics of the returning fox. it's like... everyone at some point gets a returning fox and feels like it is unique only to them or that it is fate...
  9. penkitten

    Are men who go to strip joints "creepy"?

    what about some of those creepy chicks that work in those clubs? are we going to fail to mention that?
  10. penkitten

    sosuave is doing a LIVE broadcast September 10th! [merged]

    that's a good one. also http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=187628 is a good one. i think you and rollo talked about something similar last week but i think someone should elaborate more on returning foxes because i have seen quite a few threads on here recently about them.
  11. penkitten

    Anyone dealing w/ Alcoholism personally?

    centaurion, that story blew my mind.
  12. penkitten

    Telling my wife I will be hanging with friends as a test?

    why did she give you crap about it? i can not give you any advice on this subject without knowing what took place during this particular conversation.
  13. penkitten

    MOVED - Broke it off with the near perfect girl?

    i read your post, and this is one of those times where i want to point out that it really isn't about being in love or being compatible as much as it is about being on the right path in life. things seem much clearer from the outside looking in. she was going to experience a near fatal...
  14. penkitten

    the sosuave show is going live in 1 hour!

    i just got a chance to catch your show. you did an awesome job! (the echo was the only thing that you need to work on.) rollo was a great guest. i enjoyed the part in the discussion about "different applications" and think that a lot of newer members could learn from that. what are you...
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