Are men who go to strip joints "creepy"?

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Not every guy who goes to a strip club is creepy.
But I bet there are a few creepy guys in there.
 

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My friends and I used to go to a strip joint about once a month when we were 19-21. Haven't been to one since then.

Paying to get hard. What a waste.
 

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To hell with the moralists!!!! I don`t see anything creepy about going to strip clubs. Paying to get hard? Yes, i`m paying!!!! So what???
 

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i went with my friends on my 22nd birthday and dropped 60 bux in less than an hour and got no sex....WASTE. I could've opted for the "champagne lounge" for another 300, but not worth it
 

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God damnit shaddap woman. You choose do strip and then complain that the men are creppy? What the hell did you expect that the men were going to be Greek Gods chiseled like they jsut stepped out of an Abercrombie and Fitch catalog.

This is the absurd sense of entitlement some peopel have. Guess what lady there are probably thousands of out of work male lawyers who don't even have the option of stripping for good money and have to take massive paycuts working at low level jobs that high school kids would normally do.
 

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i have no problem with strip clubs. it's adult entertainment. i haven't been to one in a few years but if i would not have any reservations going to one if the opportunity presented itself.
 

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Seems to be a lot of hate recently regarded hookers, strip clubs etc.

Listen guys get this through your heads....you pay for sex regardless of what you think. Either in your time, your resources, your connections, status, or in hard cash.

Going to a strip club/hiring a prostitute is the least expensive way to go.

Anyone who disagrees obviously hasn't seen the monthly alimony bill of high net worth man.
 

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I've been to them a few times. The strippers think I'm weird, not like in a bad way, more as in I don't belong there cause I'm a a more normal dude. One of the strippers I actually got to know a bit and she seemed cool, another gave me her number once. But I rarely go to them. I told them that it's not a huge deal for me cause i dated/hooked up with a couple ex strippers, cause it's true.
 

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Looks like a case of creepy women for creepy men to me. I mean if your hanging out in a strip club you getting what your looking for. If your a woman that thinks stripping is a good way to make a living then your a little creepy too im sorry. Theres no excuse for not being at least good at some thing that you can make a living off of. And just living life thinking some dudes going to support you eventually then suddenly realizing you need money and dont know jack and decide to strip is nothing people should pity you for, it doesnt make it OK or elevate you above the poor saps that work for a living paying you to see your tits. Personally I keep strip clubs to a novelty thing, if my friends are going for a birthday or something i'll go. Tip the strippers have some drinks and be on my way.
 

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I go to strip clubs from time to time. I think most guys who think people go there to "get hard" are missing the point. Obviously, if you're going to a strip club to get your jollies off, there are much better ways. You can watch women getting fvcked in just about every way imaginable online and you could always hire an escort. Hell, you can go to a bar and try to take home a slvt.

Going to strip clubs is more about having a good time with the boys. It's nice to have a few beers with friends, get some lap dances and look at attractive women taking their clothes off. In fact, I've taken girls to strip clubs before and they tend to enjoy them a lot too because it's a new experience for them.

It's not always about getting laid. I sometimes go to the bar just to hang out and have a good time with friends and my girl. I'll "waste" a bunch of money on drinks that I could have bought much cheaper. But the important thing is that a good time was had by all.

Strip clubs are sadly one of the few establishments left these days that overtly tailor their experience to suit males.
 

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MatureDJ said:
Haha, she said she was making $50/hour as a topless dancer?? What a joke... I made around 80/hour last night sitting on my ass in front of a monitor... I think a mildly retarded chimp could have done my job last night. The wage/money differences between the US and Canada blows me away. I was averaging 250/stagette w/ tips towards the end of my career, and I'm nothing special. Then again, the industry is very different for guys and girls.

I think its all about the vibe you give off in such venues. I've talked to girls that say that there's definitely a lot of "creeps" but lots of good guys as well. Its just an entertainment venue after all. I think its all about the vibe that a dude(s) give off... if they're all "starey" or if they're enjoying themselves and being respectful to everyone.
 

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Lexington said:
In fact, I've taken girls to strip clubs before and they tend to enjoy them a lot too because it's a new experience for them.
I honestly don't care much for strip clubs with other guys. However, having a few ladies in the group and going to a strip club usually turns out to be a really fun time!

You just gotta find some girls that are down to go to a strip club haha.
 

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Guys tend to look creepy when they are horny, especially when alone at strip clubs.

There are a few clubs that put all the others to shame in regard to quality of women. Check out Mons Venus if you're ever in Tampa, Florida. I used to take stock market clients there.

Other than for business, the one other way to enjoy a strip bar is to take a woman with you. (HG beat me to that point in the post above) I've always had fun that way. The only lap dances I've ever bought have been for women. I even took my shy law school girlfriend. After an evening there...and about 13 Budweisers...she was not shy at all.
 

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Wow.....did you guys even bother to read the article

'Some real creeps'
"I was shocked at how horribly some men treat us. I realized that I was much more naive than I thought I was," she said. On the other hand, the bar and its patrons sometimes surprise her. “While there are some real creeps that come in, there are also some very sweet guys who are regular customers and who I genuinely enjoy knowing . The stereotype that says that only dirty old men frequent nudie bars is incorrect.
Here is a woman who got sold a bill of goods by investing 10s of thousands on a college education.....and still can't find a job. And instead of sitting around and sponging off welfare or tricking some sucker into supporting her, swallows her pride to make enough to pay off her loans and support herself......and you guys still rage because she had the :gasp: nerve to call SOME men creepy, even though she acknowledged that not all men were.....

Jesus......you guys would rather her bent over a barrel working 2 minimum wage jobs and then when she is out-of-shape and stressed from overworking call her a "typical bitter fat Western woman"

And of course no one says anything about the men WILLINGLY giving her the money. No, men are the real victims here :rolleyes:
 

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sstype said:
Wow.....did you guys even bother to read the article



Here is a woman who got sold a bill of goods by investing 10s of thousands on a college education.....and still can't find a job. And instead of sitting around and sponging off welfare or tricking some sucker into supporting her, swallows her pride to make enough to pay off her loans and support herself......and you guys still rage because she had the :gasp: nerve to call SOME men creepy, even though she acknowledged that not all men were.....

Jesus......you guys would rather her bent over a barrel working 2 minimum wage jobs and then when she is out-of-shape and stressed from overworking call her a "typical bitter fat Western woman"

And of course no one says anything about the men WILLINGLY giving her the money. No, men are the real victims here :rolleyes:
gotta say i agree with your post.
 

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what about some of those creepy chicks that work in those clubs? are we going to fail to mention that?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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