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Can you get her hand in yours? I find pulling a girl towards me very subtly is usually enough to show my intentions. If they don't come closer then you know the time is wrong and you didn't lose face over it.

Again I have to agree with Oxide. Look at it this way, if she doesn't call tonight and you call her tomorrow instead, you're in the weaker position. If however, you call her tonight before you know if she's gonna call you or not then you can give her the good news about Friday. Tell...

I think I can identify with what you are saying. Black and white. For years I would be POLAR. One thing would happen to make me very happy, then something else would happen to make me depressed. But generally depressed. Also, I would get upset (and pushy) a lot and fall out with my friends...

Oxide's on the ball. Remember I almost lost Claire by playing aloofness games when she already had high IL? Once I stopped seeing it as a war I started to make better progress with her. I think you should have gone for Friday! There must be some way you can make it sound like your plans fell...

Man, a week is a long time.... If she calls, don't get serious on her. Act pleased but not surprised. If you tell her off do it lightly. Tell her you're busy but only after talking for a few minutes. Make her laugh. End on a high note. Tell her you'll call her back that day, then wait a...

Hmm... I slept with my girl on the first date. Now we have got more distant. Its been nearly 2 weeks and we haven't done it since. We both want to be a couple but I think she regrets having sex so soon. We have said we are going to "slow things down" We are still in touch and neither...

Krassus you Good Samaritan, you may just have changed that boy's life :)

:( I broke up with my ex of 4 years over a year ago. I still see her regularly and I still love her like no other. She knows this. She has made it absolutely clear that it's over between us. I have a new girlfriend and she's just as cute, so I'm getting on with my life all the same...

Undoubtedly the deepest and most enlightening post I've read on this site to date. A little harsh at times, but then reality is harsh. Nothing to add, but that most of it ties in with my experiences so far, and with most of the advice on this site. For those who are sorry they read it -...

Um... yes? Unless you want those legs to go to waste :rolleyes:

That was funny :)

First off, Glassjaw kick ass! Hmm my relationship with the love of my life started on a bad note. I cheated on her 1 week into the relationship (on Valentines Day). I owned up, she forgave me, and we lasted for 4 turbulent years after that. Ironically, she dumped me on Valentines day...

I have had a few girls virginity when I was younger. Most girls wanted to be in an exclusive, but non-penetrative relationship until they were ready. One girl took 4 months (worth every second she became a 4 year fuxkfest). Others were happy to give it up fairly soon once I got them turned...

8 weeks?? 16 is legal here, is it legal there? She is young and you're an older man so that's gonna come with implications. Sounds like she idolises you, I would say she's yours. But she's gonna get obsessed. Especially if she's a virgin (which she probably is by the sound of it). But...

Just think how good you're gonna feel when you come and post on this topic "I got a number/date/screw" :)

When I was 16 I screwed my dad's best friend's fiancé, she was 28. No I'm not proud but I was too young to know any better :) She initiated it anyhow.

I slept with the same woman for 4 years from ages 18-22 (she was number 13) and woulda married her...... Biotch dumped me last year :) My current GF is number 20. If it works out I'm happy on 20 for the forseeable future. It's easily 5x most of my friends. I used to think that it was...

I know Slickster but for some reason I am too anxious when I'm sober and I worry that it shows. Word on the street is that it does show. Maybe I should go out and start from scratch, do a boot camp or something... Well Tyler, I never looked at it that way. I guess a big doh goes out to me...

This is something I have been wondering about. What do do if you have a girl with high IL, but she has wised up from exes and wont do little favours? For example, I asked her to pour me a beer and she refused :) She says she doesn't want me to think I can "order her around". Oh, this...

Well she called me, and apologised for having a go at me on Saturday. We're going to see Terminator 3 on Friday, and she may be coming to Ayr with me for the weekend. I'll try to stay relatively sober. Thread closed. Thanks for all your help/advice guys :)