Well shyt. It was in the bag, until last night.
I know a lot of you guys know the story but here's a quick recap. Through a rocky seduction I managed to get Claire into my bed last week, and we established ourselves as a couple. There were a few strange moments, but in general her IL was high, and has been all week.
Now, this weekend things went a bit pear shaped. On Friday she came out with me and some of my friends. I was very drunk and she expressed some concern about this. But at the end of the night as far as I could tell we were okay.
On Saturday night I knew she was going to be at the same club with her friends, and she knew I was going out with my ex Emma (who is a good friend now), probably to a different club, and she seemed ok with this.
However, me and Emma ended up at the same club. Claire and Emma get on well by the way. Claire was there and happy to see me, but I wanted to give her space with her friends and not neglect Emma as I promised. I guess I made her feel a little neglected instead, as well as babbling insane drunken shyt about hurting all my ex girlfriends (general heavy stuff). Apparently I did this on Friday too (I don't remember).
Anyway, at the end of the night her IL seemed to be all but gone. She was quite annoyed and accused me of ignoring her, not acting like a couple and always talking about heavy stuff. She says I just want her as "an accessory". She wanted to spend time with me when I was sober so she could actually get to know the real me yadda yadda. She left in a hurry, not normal for her.
She had made me a compilation CD and I txtd her in the morning to say it was cool. She replied saying shes glad I liked it, did I have a good night etc. I took this as a good sign. I have always phoned her, so instead of calling her I txtd saying call me if she wanted to go see T3 next weekend (she loves T2).
She hasn't called. Fuxk I wish I had posted this before I txtd.
I'm fighting the one-itis here, I know I'm no worse off than before I met her. I have just got so damn confused between trying to act aloof and giving her attention cuz I think the lack of attention went majorly against me this time.
Okay before you bombard me with NEXT recommendations, does anyone have any ideas on salvaging this? She had HIGH IL for the past week. We have a lot in common, and so long as I don't get too drunk we get on really well. If she doesn't call me and I next her then yes, it's over. But maybe she needs that one more call to show her I actually care?
And I KNOW I should lay off the drink.... man I should have learned that lesson by now
I know a lot of you guys know the story but here's a quick recap. Through a rocky seduction I managed to get Claire into my bed last week, and we established ourselves as a couple. There were a few strange moments, but in general her IL was high, and has been all week.
Now, this weekend things went a bit pear shaped. On Friday she came out with me and some of my friends. I was very drunk and she expressed some concern about this. But at the end of the night as far as I could tell we were okay.
On Saturday night I knew she was going to be at the same club with her friends, and she knew I was going out with my ex Emma (who is a good friend now), probably to a different club, and she seemed ok with this.
However, me and Emma ended up at the same club. Claire and Emma get on well by the way. Claire was there and happy to see me, but I wanted to give her space with her friends and not neglect Emma as I promised. I guess I made her feel a little neglected instead, as well as babbling insane drunken shyt about hurting all my ex girlfriends (general heavy stuff). Apparently I did this on Friday too (I don't remember).
Anyway, at the end of the night her IL seemed to be all but gone. She was quite annoyed and accused me of ignoring her, not acting like a couple and always talking about heavy stuff. She says I just want her as "an accessory". She wanted to spend time with me when I was sober so she could actually get to know the real me yadda yadda. She left in a hurry, not normal for her.
She had made me a compilation CD and I txtd her in the morning to say it was cool. She replied saying shes glad I liked it, did I have a good night etc. I took this as a good sign. I have always phoned her, so instead of calling her I txtd saying call me if she wanted to go see T3 next weekend (she loves T2).
She hasn't called. Fuxk I wish I had posted this before I txtd.
I'm fighting the one-itis here, I know I'm no worse off than before I met her. I have just got so damn confused between trying to act aloof and giving her attention cuz I think the lack of attention went majorly against me this time.
Okay before you bombard me with NEXT recommendations, does anyone have any ideas on salvaging this? She had HIGH IL for the past week. We have a lot in common, and so long as I don't get too drunk we get on really well. If she doesn't call me and I next her then yes, it's over. But maybe she needs that one more call to show her I actually care?
And I KNOW I should lay off the drink.... man I should have learned that lesson by now