Maybe...maybe tomorrow. I just can't think about this right now.Originally posted by Oxide
Why not call her instead? I would
this really bothers me, stop saying that crap....and it's not her, it's me
Originally posted by NewMan
There are probably others here who can answer this better or give you better insight....
My thoughts....
Call her back, but tell her that you have plans for the weekend, and that your not going to be able to make it - but tell her you'd like to go out with her next week - early in the week.
Remember, your busy. Your a man who is on the move - confident. People want to be around you, your in demand. Don't let her think you have nothing going on, that you can just change your schedule on a whim. Chump's do that because they've nothing better to do. Thats not you. Be confident on the phone, and be decisive. Don't tell her you'll call her back tomorrow and let her know if you can make Friday. Again, your a man in demand, you already know what your doing on the weekend.
You have good advice NewMan...
It makes sense, but it's 11:30 PM. I can't call now...it's too late.Originally posted by bugsquish
Again I have to agree with Oxide.
Look at it this way, if she doesn't call tonight and you call her tomorrow instead, you're in the weaker position.
If however, you call her tonight before you know if she's gonna call you or not then you can give her the good news about Friday. Tell her you had to call her because something came up tonight and you are just leaving.
Ohhhhh, this is a women you met through Internet dating....Originally posted by squirrels
In the meantime, this phone sh*t sucks. I'm tired of even letting someone have the CHANCE to wait 3 days and then cancel at the last minute. Something inside me just wanted to NEXT her after that, but I know that's unreasonable. I just feel like the more I play phone-tag with this girl, the less sexual the whole thing becomes. I can't see how you people can do "Internet dating."
Mindsex, eh? Elaborate.Originally posted by iqqi
yo, squirrels. i don't think you should tell her friday is free. just stick with what you said before, and learn the lesson.
you can still maintain her IL. don't let her see you sweat! that's all. next time you talk to her, give her some GREEEAAAT mindsex! stop acting like the phone is bad. it doesn't have to be like scheduling a job interview. that may be why her IL is faltering? mindsex. that should boost her IL while you wait to see her in person next week.
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Technically she's not a stripper any more.Originally posted by Player_Supreme
all this trouble over a stripper? they are the biggest flakes around. you gotta expect them to cancel cause:
1. they are too tired
2. they got a gig at the last minute
3. they just don't really give a fu*ck
I've dated a few...it's no big deal. They come, they go. they party with their girlfriends, get drunk...ect..ect...but they do look good on ya arm