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I think a lot of guys get hung up on the term "aloof". The word conjures up the idea that a guy has to pretend to be looking down his nose at some girl he's interested in in a lame effort to get her to qualify to him. When people read "aloof" they tend to think "haughty" or feigned disinterest...

Law 20: Do Not Commit to Anyone It is the fool who always rushes to take sides. Do not commit to any side or cause but yourself. By maintaining your independence, you become the master of others— playing people against one another, making them pursue you.

The main difference between Charlie Sheen banging multiple women and various pornstars, and Tiger Woods banging multiple women and occasionally pornstars is that Tiger Woods made a commitment in marriage to "forsake all others". Sexual impulse and one's control over it isn't the issue here, it's...

Bump, for all the college age guys getting ready for Spring Break this month.

There's a popular saying here that goes,.. "Anything you cannot say 'No' to makes you it's slave." I happen to agree with this, however, by this definition, does not commitment make you a 'slave' by default? If by the circumstances of a commitment you cannot, figuratively, say "no" to the...

Hey kids what time is it? DJ MATH TIME Okay kids, word problem: BRIAN spends 9 days alone with his d!ck in hand. He then spends 5 days with his girlfriend, d!ck in hand, doing whatever people not-ƒucking do, and 1 day with her having sex for about an hour. Considering the 10 hours of drive...

Here's the good news: Women's standards crumble easily given the right incentives. A woman’s standards are like a house of cards: kick out one from the bottom and the whole edifice crashes down. Never assume what a woman says - even amongst her girlfriends - is any proof of her motivation. A...

As the wise sage Chris Rock so pointedly observed, "women cannot go back in lifestyle." Once they reach a certain milestone in their way of life, they don't want to go back to a previous way of living. When a woman dwells on her ex, she's (not so) covertly informing you of the previous standard...

marriage / relationship counseling = last stop before toll Have a read of the Desire Dynamic thread for a good primer on this. Men tend to initiate or agree to counseling because they see it as a last resort to get back to a previous time where he had his wife's genuine desire to ƒuck him...

I hit upon this back in 2006 actually: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=110789

Isn't it an interesting dynamic that when a Man LJBFs a woman who made the effort to relocate for him (as in your case) scorn is just heaped upon him. He's indecisive. He should've knew beforehand that he wasn't 100% committed. Now look what's happened, all her love and devotion wasted on man...

At 2:40 that lion was like, "the ƒuck is that sh!t all about?" lol Law 5: So Much Depends on Reputation— Guard it with Your Life Reputation is the cornerstone of power. Through reputation alone you can intimidate and win; once it slips, however, you are vulnerable, and will be attacked on all...

I would say your friend is an AFC, irrespective of looks, demeanor or how he responded to this woman. Why do I think this? Because he the made potentially life-impacting decision to move to another state based solely on facilitating his relationship with this girl. Think about what that...

Law 9: Win Through Your Actions, Never through Argument Any momentary triumph you think you have gained through argument is really a Pyrrhic victory: The resentment and ill will you stir up is stronger and lasts longer than any momentary change of opinion. It is much more powerful to get others...

Ach! Dammit, now I'm guilty of feeding a troll. Please return to yourLack of Close Friends thread. They care about you over there Message Boy. THREAD CLOSED.

You might be right, but when you read screeds like JT's here can you blame me? I've never approached what I offer here from the perspective of trying to garner fame or create some cult of personality. As I stated above, I've never made a dime from anything I've written about intergender dynamics...

A great deal of hate is fueled by false premises. Concocting convenient scenarios, imagining the worst of your enemies, and reinterpreting their successes are a salve for the burned ego. Newsflash: your thin-skinned indignation is not my moral crisis.

I think you have more of a problem with 'hero worship' than anything to do with my identity or even the concepts I and others offer here. What difference does it make? I have a PM box full of men from all walks of life, from a variety of cultures and ages thanking me for opening their eyes to...

I believe in the Universal Law of Distraction.