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It's time to let go of your invisible friend. There is no such thing as an LDR, because you have no relationship. An LDR simply does not meet the criteria necessary for it to be considered a relationship. There is no reciprocity of anything more than words passing over a phone line or an IM...

A post in another thread by ZEKKO got me to thinking about men feeling validated in their lives by means of sex or achievement, or any number of other contrived ways to rationalize feeling good about themselves. I have never understood this want of validation in sex. At 42 I can honestly say...

Clean it up or I close this thread.

The medium IS the message. I hate the term 'Mixed Signals/Messages'. More often than not there's nothing 'Mixed' being communicated and rather it's a failure (willful or not) to read what a woman is communicating. The average guy tends to 'get' exactly what a woman has implied with her words...

Good lord... I signed up, but all the vaginal discharge (from both sexes) on this site makes my eyes hurt. However, it is about what I'd expected. It’s endlessly entertaining (and predictable) to see how often women’s (and feminized men’s) default response to anything they disagree with in...

Marriage is the biggest risk any man will ever take.

Cougars "owning" their behavior would imply that there was actually some cognitive awareness going on about those behaviors. Meaning that if you were to ask a random cougar if she'd made a conscious, well-reasoned decision to only date younger men, she would tell you yes, in spite of any...

Fixed.

I don't necessarily think men lose their capacity to take risks, but I do think they become less willing to take risks. Married men are the easy illustration, but I'd also say LTR guys - particularly those with bad ONEitis - become less willing to take risks because they all believe they have...

Alpha as ƒuck. For a moment, try to dissociate the words this girl said from the real subtextual message she's conveying. These are the words of a 26 y.o. woman who's staring down the barrel of a gun. She's pretty (we assume), she's self-entitled and self-important, however, as with most...

http://edition.cnn.com/video/#/video/world/2011/02/13/grant.china.pick.up.cnn?hpt=C2 I kind of have mixed feelings about this. Above all it's an absolutely brilliant marketing scheme. Where else in the world could you find such a high concentration of single, desperate men? Well done Juggler...

Judging from my 'morning wood' today, I'll just say, "not yet"

You know, this thread has kind of got me thinking about masturbation differently. I used to think that the primary issue with beating off was this feminine double standard - women masturbating is sexy, arousing and, nowadays, socially empowering due to the bullsh!t cliché that women have been...

That's what her stuffed animals are for.

Watch this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=EDk0M0UnmAw#! You're just a 'dude'. You need a Look.

Well done. If it's any consolation, there is no better DHV than dumping a girl. My guess is you'll be hearing from her again, but that's a topic for another thread.

The Law of Attraction is diametrically opposed, and inversely proportional to the Law of the Jinx. Thus they cancel one another out. Universal Law of the Jinx A jinx, in popular superstition and folklore, is: • A sort of curse placed on a person that makes them prey to large numbers of minor...

It's A Trap!

What are you cycling?

As I've stated in countless threads, I'm not anti-marriage. I'm anti-never-saw-it-coming-WTF-just-happened?-pollyanna-marriage. I'm not even anti-monogamy per se, I'm just anti-monogamy-pre-thirty-years-old. Nowadays men don't become Men until they're 30 as it is. Too many guys commit to a raw...