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1998: "Just be yourself, and the right ONE will come along." 2008: "Just be confident, and the right ONE will come along."

Flashbacks of the ill conceived SS evangelism of LoveShack still give me nightmares,... By all means, preach it from the mountaintops, just remember:

^^^ Oh I'll admit it's conjecture, but it's plausible conjecture. For the record, it's not about 'less' desirable pheromones, it's about a lower incidence of any sex-cue pheromones due to depletion. It stands to reason that women would be more attracted to men motivated to being sexual with...

Good blog. Question though, why do you have a girlfriend?

Well, at least we're being honest now. NEXT. Let me see if I can rephrase this so as not to offend your youthful idealism; Please consider that the very short "relationship" you think represents "how things REALLY are" is based solely on your own brief experiences since you were maybe, 14...

I wish I had sources to site for this, but I can remember reading case studies on the bio-chemical effect of human sexual interaction doing grad work in college. I believe they were done by Dr. Martie Hasselton, but they outlined the endorphin and hormonal profiles present in healthy adults...

The sad truth is that porn has probably saved / prolonged more marriages than it's ever destroyed.

It’s endlessly entertaining (and predictable) to see how often women’s (and feminized men’s) default response to anything they disagree with in regards to gender dynamics is met with a personalization to the contrary. Even as young as 17, it’s always the “not-in-my-case” story about how their...

This is why the terrorists hate us.

I'm here to help. Heheh,..

Funny how it always comes around to compromise when the issue is about a man changing to become a woman's ideal, but it's about respect and dignity for a woman when a man wants her to change into his ideal. Just because it's uncomfortable for you to acknowledge the power dynamics in a...

I was going to say, now's the time to sh!t or get off the pot with her. If she's not worth the effort then move on to another plate. If you're doing a takeaway, then at some point you have to feed the rabbit. Operant conditioning only works if there's an intermittent reward. No apologies, no "I...

What’s pathetic is that, as per usual for feminine-centric porn complaints, the author lumps all porn into the same stereotypical profile. By ignoring the overwhelming variety of porn that any given man may “consume”, the sympathetic reader (mostly concerned women and their white knight...

Not too bad. I would've left off the last 2 sentences though. Winner.

I think the terminology of the 'community' throws a people off sometimes. Alpha, ONEitis, the Matrix, AFC, are all for lack of a better term. They serve the purpose of identifying concepts. For myself, unplugging came as a slow process. For the better part of my teen years I bought into all...

I read an article this morning about the 5 stages of grief and how they apply to coming into acceptance of a previously rejected truth. I was curious about how this might apply to an AFC coming to grips with unplugging from the Matrix, so I did a bit of searching and what did I find on my blog...

As I was saying, it's men who are the real romantics: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1353345/Men-want-married-just-women.html

Iron Rule of Tomassi #3 Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait. When a woman makes you wait for sex you are not her highest priority. Sexuality is spontaneous chemical reaction between two parties, not a...

Attraction is not a choice - however, what you do from there is entirely up to you. I think people get hung up on the word "seduction." It conjures up melodramatic associations of doing something nefarious to tempt someone into doing something against their own interests. In some instances...