She doesn't want to have sex because she "doesn't know me well enough."

[IamJosan]

The whole "I don't know you well enough" is BS! I fvckd this girl I was seeing for a little bit, and after we finished, she told me "I can't believe I let you fvck me, I barley even know you."

As you can see, it's not about how well a girl knows you. You just gotta seduce the girl. Get her all wet where she can't resist.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Okay, the only reason I am still putting up with this girls sh!t is because I don't have any other options at this time.

Well, at least we're being honest now. NEXT.

actually no
please just argue what i said. Not the person. Why are you unable to do so? i don't get it.

Let me see if I can rephrase this so as not to offend your youthful idealism; Please consider that the very short "relationship" you think represents "how things REALLY are" is based solely on your own brief experiences since you were maybe, 14? Don't take that as a burn on you personally, think of it as a statement of fact. Try to think of it in terms of limited experience rather than your age. If I'm a white belt in Karate, I'd be an idiot to give Karate advice to black belts even if was older.

you misunderstood me i'm not talking about negociation.

You weren't talking about negotiation because you lack the experience to recognize it when it's happening - just as it has in KORUPT's most recent exchange. Go back and read this girl's filibustering tactics, changing times and negotiating the terms of her intimacy with him.

IT's very passionate with my bf. I'm talking about how we fix things when a conflic comes up.

Your personal experience doesn't set the model for reality. I realize that as with most women, in your self-concern you'd like your own experience to define reality, and have us all be co-opted into it. That may be how you perceive it, others don't.

Everybody knows that in a passionate couple conflicts do come up. And it's about how to go throught it as effiviently as possible and ACTUALLY fixing the problem, not just working on getting it's own way.

I really wish it were that simple. I really wish it were so simple that the process of negotiating desire wouldn't affect that desire. Do you honestly think that the girl KORUPT is describing here, after all her bullsh!t, actually has the rational capacity to identify, much less amicably 'solve' the problem of him wanting to ƒuck her? They're not a "passionate couple".

 

[Nutz]

Around 9 I get a call saying that instead of just leaving her friends place, she hasn't even gone and now wants to know if I want to come over around f*cking 12 and spend the night. I tell her maybe and that I'll let her know. I also tell her that we should have just scheduled for another day if she's got all this sh!t going on. She asks if tomorrow (Wednesday) is good, I tell say "maybe" and she replies "I'll talk to you later Korrupt," and hangs up the phone. What a f*cking kunt.

You're an idiot. She sets up a booty call and you give her crap for it? What's a matter with you?

As for the rest of the crap with her jerking you around, it's your fault for not leading. YOU tell her when you're coming over, YOU tell her when you're going to hang out. YOU TAKE THE LEAD. When you don't you end up being reactive and get tooled like a fool. She's not acting like anything, she's just meandering because you haven't taken the reigns away from her and set things straight.

 

[BBbardot]

Well, at least we're being honest now. NEXT.




Let me see if I can rephrase this so as not to offend your youthful idealism; Please consider that the very short "relationship" you think represents "how things REALLY are" is based solely on your own brief experiences since you were maybe, 14? Don't take that as a burn on you personally, think of it as a statement of fact. Try to think of it in terms of limited experience rather than your age. If I'm a white belt in Karate, I'd be an idiot to give Karate advice to black belts even if was older.



You weren't talking about negotiation because you lack the experience to recognize it when it's happening - just as it has in KORUPT's most recent exchange. Go back and read this girl's filibustering tactics, changing times and negotiating the terms of her intimacy with him.



Your personal experience doesn't set the model for reality. I realize that as with most women, in your self-concern you'd like your own experience to define reality, and have us all be co-opted into it. That may be how you perceive it, others don't.



I really wish it were that simple. I really wish it were so simple that the process of negotiating desire wouldn't affect that desire. Do you honestly think that the girl KORUPT is describing here, after all her bullsh!t, actually has the rational capacity to identify, much less amicably 'solve' the problem of him wanting to ƒuck her? They're not a "passionate couple".

no, you can't negociate desire! i just said in a post above that i posted in teh wrong thread!!! i said sorry
i thought it was the "how to punish a girl that go talk to her ex behind my back" thread
i know... i said i was sorry ^^


my answer to this thread we just be better at getting her hot/if she is frigid, drop her, find you some european girl, they have less trouble gettin naughty

 

[BBbardot]

RT owns you.

sounds pretty good

 

[BBbardot]

As you can see, it's not about how well a girl knows you. You just gotta seduce the girl. Get her all wet where she can't resist.

exactly

 

[backbreaker]

This is easy guys


next time she asks you to take her to a restaurant that does not have a combo list, or to buy her anything say I don't know you well enough.

 

[Rethnu]

@Korrupt just run, run as fast as you can. IMHO you've already wasted way too much time with that :crazy: girl

 

[Korrupt]

Well, I broke it off with the b!tch.

I actually decided to give her one more chance to redeem herself and actually show some sexual interest.. What a waste of my time.

Went to her place and once again, just like the last couple hangouts/dates we've had, she showed no sexual interest at all. She didn't even want to kiss. I tried everything short of putting a gun to her head and forcing her to f*ck me to get her horny. When I left I acted cold, got a text 5 minutes later saying "I can tell things didn't go the way you wanted them to. *Friend* has been over and is leaving soon so things will go back to normal." All I said was "No, we're done." Surprisingly I got a text back saying "Haha okay your loss. Sorry I didn't give you head tonight."

First three dates for awesome, the last few were f*cking horrible. The only thing I regret is not breaking it off sooner. Appreciate the advice from all in the topic.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Well done. If it's any consolation, there is no better DHV than dumping a girl. My guess is you'll be hearing from her again, but that's a topic for another thread.