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Should you cuddle with her and talk about feelings, etc? I LOVE doing that ****, honestly. I enjoy it almost as much as sex.
 

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cuddling is fine but sharing emotions? ... bro sorry but that kinda sound gay lol
 

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sorry dude, i enjoy connecting with women, it makes the sex better.
 

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After you have been seeing her for a while maybe, but vomiting your feelings all over her the first time you hook up is not going to help.

You need some so she doesn't feel like a cheap slvt, just don't go overboard, Remember you hardly know her.

Cuddling is ok, but don't delude yourself it is as good as pounding your 10 inch jackhammer into her tight pvssy.
 

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If you are a lesbian, I guess it's allright, unless you are supposed to be the butch, there.
 

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blueline said:
Should you cuddle with her and talk about feelings, etc?
That's what her stuffed animals are for.
 

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blueline said:
sorry dude, i enjoy connecting with women, it makes the sex better.
Well if you like it, then why are you asking others about it? Cuddle away.

I don't know what feelings there are to talk about. Other than being hungry or sleepy. But maybe that's just because I'm a man.
 

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You got it half right. Women want you to hold them after sex, but more importantly they want you to SHUT UP. No one wants to hear about your stupid feelings, especially the girl who just let you fvck her. The more you talk, the worse she will feel about having had sex with you.

Women like not knowing every detail about you, because if they like you, then they can fill in the blanks with imagined, romance novel perfection. If you'll just be quiet after sex, she'll lay there and think about how great you are. Talking ruins it.
 

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There are better ways to make a girl not feel like a slut. None of them involve talking.

Finally, if you're doing your job right, the girl should feel lucky/happy to have slept with you. Not like a slut. More like "I hit the jackpot!" Only replace "jackpot" with "g spot."
 

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Bible_Belt said:
You got it half right. Women want you to hold them after sex, but more importantly they want you to SHUT UP. No one wants to hear about your stupid feelings, especially the girl who just let you fvck her. The more you talk, the worse she will feel about having had sex with you.

Women like not knowing every detail about you, because if they like you, then they can fill in the blanks with imagined, romance novel perfection. If you'll just be quiet after sex, she'll lay there and think about how great you are. Talking ruins it.
this right here! :up:
 

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Bible_Belt said:
You got it half right. Women want you to hold them after sex, but more importantly they want you to SHUT UP. No one wants to hear about your stupid feelings, especially the girl who just let you fvck her. The more you talk, the worse she will feel about having had sex with you.

Women like not knowing every detail about you, because if they like you, then they can fill in the blanks with imagined, romance novel perfection. If you'll just be quiet after sex, she'll lay there and think about how great you are. Talking ruins it.
well, you got it



to OP: even better: don't hold them straight away but wait a little. So she has time to want it. So wait a little then tell her, come here. You can also don't say, do anything and let her come into your arms, then hold her.
I'm a girl and i know that we don't like when a guy shows needyness, especially the first time we have sex with them. We love when the guy is sexual desire and **** us but we also like when his affection is hard to get. We don't like distance either, cause we'd think the guy is just empty inside. So you need to find the right middle
 

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Rollo Tomassi said:
That's what her stuffed animals are for.
Funny! I just about spit pop all over my monitor!

Could cuddle with one of her cats I suppose. They don't give a sh!t about your feelings, but do like to be held.
 

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blueline said:
Should you cuddle with her and talk about feelings, etc? I LOVE doing that ****, honestly. I enjoy it almost as much as sex.
In a word, no. For starters, less is more. And if you charge straight in with the feelings crap you risk coming across as a stage 5 wuss/clinger. Women might want that sort of behavior from a guy, but it's now what they respond well to.

This sums things up way better than I ever could:

http://roissy.wordpress.com/2010/07/16/why-you-should-leave-after-sex/
 

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Need more info. man. This girl a ONS, current/new plate, has she hinted at a LTR, what?

Here's my take on it.
 

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BBbardot said:
well, you got it



to OP: even better: don't hold them straight away but wait a little. So she has time to want it. So wait a little then tell her, come here. You can also don't say, do anything and let her come into your arms, then hold her.
I'm a girl and i know that we don't like when a guy shows needyness, especially the first time we have sex with them. We love when the guy is sexual desire and **** us but we also like when his affection is hard to get. We don't like distance either, cause we'd think the guy is just empty inside. So you need to find the right middle
You are 17 ***** you don't know what you want.....you are a kid lol
 

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BBbardot said:
well, you got it



to OP: even better: don't hold them straight away but wait a little. So she has time to want it. So wait a little then tell her, come here. You can also don't say, do anything and let her come into your arms, then hold her.
I'm a girl and i know that we don't like when a guy shows needyness, especially the first time we have sex with them. We love when the guy is sexual desire and **** us but we also like when his affection is hard to get. We don't like distance either, cause we'd think the guy is just empty inside. So you need to find the right middle
how many guys have you slept with and when have you had sex for the first time?
 

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ChalengeGuyFan said:
how many guys have you slept with and when have you had sex for the first time?
Bardot is one hot French chick. We have skyped a lot. She sings to me.
 

Men frequently err by talking too much. They often monopolize conversations, droning on and on about topics that bore women to tears. They think they're impressing the women when, in reality, they're depressing the women.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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