so the first time you have sex with a girl...

[blueline]

Should you cuddle with her and talk about feelings, etc? I LOVE doing that ****, honestly. I enjoy it almost as much as sex.

 

[moneyisking]

cuddling is fine but sharing emotions? ... bro sorry but that kinda sound gay lol

 

[blueline]

sorry dude, i enjoy connecting with women, it makes the sex better.

 

[runner83]

After you have been seeing her for a while maybe, but vomiting your feelings all over her the first time you hook up is not going to help.

You need some so she doesn't feel like a cheap slvt, just don't go overboard, Remember you hardly know her.

Cuddling is ok, but don't delude yourself it is as good as pounding your 10 inch jackhammer into her tight pvssy.

 

[Packers2010]

well.. yeah.... i guess cuddling is on. feelings on first time tho. no

 

[DanelMadr]

If you are a lesbian, I guess it's allright, unless you are supposed to be the butch, there.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Should you cuddle with her and talk about feelings, etc?

That's what her stuffed animals are for.

 

[Iceberg]

sorry dude, i enjoy connecting with women, it makes the sex better.

Well if you like it, then why are you asking others about it? Cuddle away.

I don't know what feelings there are to talk about. Other than being hungry or sleepy. But maybe that's just because I'm a man.

 

[Bible_Belt]

You got it half right. Women want you to hold them after sex, but more importantly they want you to SHUT UP. No one wants to hear about your stupid feelings, especially the girl who just let you fvck her. The more you talk, the worse she will feel about having had sex with you.

Women like not knowing every detail about you, because if they like you, then they can fill in the blanks with imagined, romance novel perfection. If you'll just be quiet after sex, she'll lay there and think about how great you are. Talking ruins it.

 

[loveshogun]

There are better ways to make a girl not feel like a slut. None of them involve talking.

Finally, if you're doing your job right, the girl should feel lucky/happy to have slept with you. Not like a slut. More like "I hit the jackpot!" Only replace "jackpot" with "g spot."

 

[RSanders219]

You got it half right. Women want you to hold them after sex, but more importantly they want you to SHUT UP. No one wants to hear about your stupid feelings, especially the girl who just let you fvck her. The more you talk, the worse she will feel about having had sex with you.

Women like not knowing every detail about you, because if they like you, then they can fill in the blanks with imagined, romance novel perfection. If you'll just be quiet after sex, she'll lay there and think about how great you are. Talking ruins it.

this right here!

 

[BBbardot]

You got it half right. Women want you to hold them after sex, but more importantly they want you to SHUT UP. No one wants to hear about your stupid feelings, especially the girl who just let you fvck her. The more you talk, the worse she will feel about having had sex with you.

Women like not knowing every detail about you, because if they like you, then they can fill in the blanks with imagined, romance novel perfection. If you'll just be quiet after sex, she'll lay there and think about how great you are. Talking ruins it.

well, you got it



to OP: even better: don't hold them straight away but wait a little. So she has time to want it. So wait a little then tell her, come here. You can also don't say, do anything and let her come into your arms, then hold her.
I'm a girl and i know that we don't like when a guy shows needyness, especially the first time we have sex with them. We love when the guy is sexual desire and **** us but we also like when his affection is hard to get. We don't like distance either, cause we'd think the guy is just empty inside. So you need to find the right middle

 

[5string]

That's what her stuffed animals are for.

Funny! I just about spit pop all over my monitor!

Could cuddle with one of her cats I suppose. They don't give a sh!t about your feelings, but do like to be held.

 

[Nutz]

Should you cuddle with her and talk about feelings, etc? I LOVE doing that ****, honestly. I enjoy it almost as much as sex.

In a word, no. For starters, less is more. And if you charge straight in with the feelings crap you risk coming across as a stage 5 wuss/clinger. Women might want that sort of behavior from a guy, but it's now what they respond well to.

This sums things up way better than I ever could:

http://roissy.wordpress.com/2010/07/16/why-you-should-leave-after-sex/

 

[vatoloco]

Need more info. man. This girl a ONS, current/new plate, has she hinted at a LTR, what?

Here's my take on it.

 

[women haze]

well, you got it



to OP: even better: don't hold them straight away but wait a little. So she has time to want it. So wait a little then tell her, come here. You can also don't say, do anything and let her come into your arms, then hold her.
I'm a girl and i know that we don't like when a guy shows needyness, especially the first time we have sex with them. We love when the guy is sexual desire and **** us but we also like when his affection is hard to get. We don't like distance either, cause we'd think the guy is just empty inside. So you need to find the right middle

You are 17 ***** you don't know what you want.....you are a kid lol

 

[BBbardot]

you are a kid lol

keep telling yourself that, old man...

 

[allbeef]

keep telling yourself that, old man...

As a Frenchie you should have lost your virginity to a 60 year old man. Preferably your father.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FnKt84AdUHA
They call this art in France. Do tell us about your father.

 

[ChalengeGuyFan]

well, you got it



to OP: even better: don't hold them straight away but wait a little. So she has time to want it. So wait a little then tell her, come here. You can also don't say, do anything and let her come into your arms, then hold her.
I'm a girl and i know that we don't like when a guy shows needyness, especially the first time we have sex with them. We love when the guy is sexual desire and **** us but we also like when his affection is hard to get. We don't like distance either, cause we'd think the guy is just empty inside. So you need to find the right middle

how many guys have you slept with and when have you had sex for the first time?

 

[allbeef]

how many guys have you slept with and when have you had sex for the first time?

Bardot is one hot French chick. We have skyped a lot. She sings to me.