Search results

  1. S

    A Mature, Married Man's Fileld Report!

    Very true but... Always an awkward situation with your LTR. Her: Would you cheat on me? You: Ummm...... Seriously though this question gets asked and you can really only answer it one way. Also flirting with other women in front of your LTR may not always be appropriate in certain...
  2. S

    'Guy Friends'

    Her interest level is low and getting lower. She's barely worth your time or acknowledgement. Focus elsewhere. Do yourself a favor. Next time a girl you are "seeing" says she's going to stay with another dude call her on it immediately. Let her know that if she goes it's over. Regardless...
  3. S

    Would you mind friends or strangers laughing at you?

    Dude you are never too old to do anything. I showed up at my 20 year grad reunion riding a skateboard. I'm not even a hard core skater. I just didn't want to drive home drunk. People laughed at me. I laughed with them. It was awesome. If your friends are laughing then try some...
  4. S

    Ex-wife's Myspace Page Still Has Our Wedding Pictures

    Sounds to me like she's just let the page go dead and probably doesn't care. In this day and age there are probably lots of pics of you that you don't even know about lurking around. I wouldn't read too much into it.
  5. S

    As a mature guy, am I too old to get the hot chicks?

    Being an athlete or super fit isn't really necessary. How about being sporty? I think every sizeable town or city will have some sort of sports or social club going on. Get active. You don't have to be super fit. There are tons of people out there all shapes and sizes doing sh!t. Get out...
  6. S

    Dressing like a douchebag

    There are weirdos dressed like idiots all over the place. Peacocks, buffoons, whatever. Does it really concern you? Would you really care to attract the same type of women that these guys do? Probably not so carry on nothing to see here.
  7. S

    Being Alone Thru This Break Up Is Weakening Me

    Don't be a chump man. The solution to your problem is exactly what she is doing right now. Get out there and get yours.
  8. S

    How to handle another guy in group getting more attention

    Any attempts to "out attention" this guy come off as weak, beta, and trying too hard. A little secret..... This guy is the best wingman you can find. Stop feeling like you need to out do this guy. He is your ally. If you are a funny character yourself, you should very easily be able to play...
  9. S

    Girl with boyfriend, cont'd - Need advice

    Her IL is low and probably has been from the get go. Her response to your text proves it. Best to move on . 4 month break is a joke. She's using it as an excuse to string you along and get more attention. Why give her your attention for free.
  10. S

    Please help another victim of cheating!

    One of the best posts I've read on here in a good long while. This guy "gets it". (Notice that he's only been a member for a month too.) Way to go!!! You listened, learned and damn right you are LUCKY. Take what you've learned here with you. Apply it to every woman you meet from this day...
  11. S

    Does this sound familiar?

    I didn't write this piece but I found it amusing and thought I would share. It really puts into perspective what guys have to deal with. This is the first time I’ve ever seen you - and that car. I wonder if this is your first day on campus, I hope you talk to me. I really like that car...
  12. S

    Please help another victim of cheating!

    If you could go back to that moment what would you do? Re-live the past couple years with this liar or move on to someone better? This person can't be trusted. She has disrespected you repeatedly. The fact that you've let it happen means your own self respect is low. She will not respect...
  13. S

    My GF is addicted to RPG online!

    Sounds like she's wasting her life on vids and you might be wasting yours on her.
  14. S

    The Pickup Line that Never Fails

    You should always assume they are single. Pickup lines are cheesy.
  15. S

    Bad Aging In Men

    You are wrong. Dead wrong. You are wondering why you have no spirit in your eyes. It's lack of confidence and a bad attitude. You need to make small changes now that will lead to bigger changes down the road. STOP - drinking alcohol, smoking cigs, weed, and coffee. Cut back on sugar...
  16. S

    Slippery Road to Redemption

    You have seen the light. You know what you have to do. Your doubts are created within. They are not real. Believing in yourself is easy once you actually do it. Once you do, you will be unstoppable. Everything will naturally fall into place. Take the next step. Believe. It is that easy.
  17. S

    Slippery Road to Redemption

    One of the best things I've read on these forums in a long time.
  18. S

    Digging up the past on facebook?

    Facebook is so lame for that precise reason. So many better ways to spend your time.
  19. S

    A bit of an update...

    Fvcking awesome Des! I'm excited to hear you are playing live music again. I've been getting together with some old bandmates lately too (after a 10 year hiatus). It's so much more fun now. Less egos and attention seeking. Just doing it for the joy of playing. Regarding the gf, isn't...
  20. S

    I am only 21 and I faced huge reality shock... I need help from mature men.

    Moneyisking, every guy around your age goes thru these feelings. It's just a part of life and a phase that will pass. Learn from this. As a young adult your parents want assurance that you are on the right path and moving forward with your life and career. The fact that you've changed your...
Top