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    I think im crazy

    I would give anything to be completely uninhibited all of the time. Also, I dont know how to change my own negative self beliefs...they persist.
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    I think im crazy

    so...been asking myself what is the point alot lately im almost 24, im a porn addict, a virgin, a 'nice' guy, and my existential crisis is never ending. what is the ****ing point. its all meaningless. it doesn't matter how hard I try, I never get anywhere. And if I did get 'anywhere', then...
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    Pick up at club and she messages me next day

    thx for the 'help'
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    Pick up at club and she messages me next day

    when I asked her if shes forgetful, it wasnt a scolding tone, it was probably firm, but gentle I think...im not sure how I said it.
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    Pick up at club and she messages me next day

    I just rang her, we were both a little awkward but I lead through it. She was giggling slightly, like pacifying, so I think her interest is still high. I just small talked, then asked her for coffee not far from where I know she generally lives. She said yes, but she asked me to remind her ...
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    Am I the only one who finds socializing EXHAUSTING?

    code word for INTJ: mastermind, yeah *****es love a cool mastermind
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    Am I the only one who finds socializing EXHAUSTING?

    im an introvert; but im a 'moderately expressed introvert' Im trying to rebel against it. the test gave me INTJ personality type
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    Pick up at club and she messages me next day

    im making a plan now up until 2 months ago, I had never made out with a girl or taken a girl on a date, im 23 so far im made out with 3 girls while drunk, and been on 2 dates
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    Pick up at club and she messages me next day

    ill tell you what, instead of that last post just potentially being me mentally masturbating my ego, ill ring her today and let you know
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    Pick up at club and she messages me next day

    that doesnt sound right to me, no offense, im sure you know more than me. I never had her number, she could have never seen me again, but instead she messaged me and said she had a great night. For me theres 2 possibilities, 1. shes a little interested 2. shes very interested and is...
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    Pick up at club and she messages me next day

    do I just ring her whenever and ask her for coffee? any other ideas or is that cool? I have not been on many dates, but I already have attraction and comfort built with this girl from the first night
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    Pick up at club and she messages me next day

    she waits almost exactly 24 hours from my previous text, " Yeah sounds good "
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    Pick up at club and she messages me next day

    thanks for the support guys, it really helps me
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    Pick up at club and she messages me next day

    I didnt send her another message is she playing games? I think its likely. Its a little strange, she displays high interest by taking initiative, and I think im rewarding her by telling her id like to see her again...and she goes cold? so weird. she seeing if I act desperate and msg her?
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    Pick up at club and she messages me next day

    yea im a lightweight with drinking, but that isnt relevant I dont think She never replied at all
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    Pick up at club and she messages me next day

    coffee or something?
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    Pick up at club and she messages me next day

    Hey, Just out for a boys night last night, wasnt really trying to pick up. We were drinking heavily, I had about 4 pints of beer. We're in a place with a massive sausage ratio, only 5 girls and like 20 guys. Just for the record, I dont do cold approaches at all. My friend challenges me...
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    Change

    i keep telling myself regret is a 100 x more painful in the long run than a little instant pain from rejection
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    Change

    wow very nice post I have been going through this in my own head over the last month. Im 23 and ive never had a gf. But lately its been hurting alot, and I have been changing my behaviour and pushing myself out of my comfort zone. In short, im pushing myself because I feel like I have my back...
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    Will Online Dating Destroy Game for Average Guys?

    some interesting points in here
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