Wildebeest
Don Juan
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Hey,
Just out for a boys night last night, wasnt really trying to pick up. We were drinking heavily, I had about 4 pints of beer. We're in a place with a massive sausage ratio, only 5 girls and like 20 guys.
Just for the record, I dont do cold approaches at all.
My friend challenges me to go and chat with 3 girls across from us. lol I just realised that they could have sat in many other empty seats away from us, but instead they chose to sit next to us. Pretty much an approach invitation in hindsight.
Wasnt heaps attracted to any of them off the bat, 2 were average, and 1 was cute. I did this as a challenge to myself and for some fun. Even if I get blown out, I would just laugh at myself.
I ask if their seat is taken, and they say no, positively. I sit down, and make a joke about the sausage ratio, I tell them I like their odds and theyre outnumbered 6 to 1. They all smile/laugh. One of them does most of the talking, the redhead, who is the motherhen. There is a cute looking blonde who is a little chubby, but has a nice face. And a quiet brunette, who is 'sick' and doesnt say anything.
We banter back and forth. The motherhen challenges me multiple times in different ways, but I demonstrate they cant affect me, I laugh along and tease them back. The conversation doesnt really stop, just good vibing. . I didnt bring them into the convo, never occured to me. All of my 3 friends are taken, except one of them, maybe I should have just brought him in, to disarm the hen. But hes an inexperienced wingman.
I chat with the girls for about 30-40 minutes, then my friends (across from me), want to venue change. The girls tell me where theyre going, we're going some where else. We exchange pleasantries and we leave. We go to the other place, we stay for an hour. Then my mate wants us to go the place the girls were going. I didnt really care...probably why im single. So we go there, and my mate finds them on the dance floor LOL.
The sick brunette went home, and its just the redhead and the blonde left. My and my good looking mate (taken) start dancing next to them, while we all make eyes and laugh at each other. My mate disarms the redhead chick for me by dancing with her and I dance with the blonde.
We have a break, and get a drink. We come back, and start dancing near them again. The blonde is getting hit on by some random single guy (dancing), and rejects him in front of us with body language. My mate who is a natural keeps whispering in my ear about how much the blonde girl is into me, turns out he is dead on the money.
I start actually dancing with her, like spinning her a few times, and dancing while holding her hands. I dont know what im doing but I make it fun, and shes loving it. She laughs at my dancing, and we keep mucking around for like 20min. Then its just us, our friends have taken their leave for a reason or another. I stop her, and drag her over to the side of the dance floor. And I go in for the kiss, we makeout for a good 12-15 seconds, and I pull out first. Shes smiling. She starts asking me questions about what I do and such.
Her friend is outside the place, and is hasseling her with text messages. I take her hand and lead her out. She says she has to go home with her friend. So I try to get her number but my phone is being retarded and she sees that. Instead I give her my number and she puts it into her phone. She doesnt want to kiss me because her friend is watching. They leave.
I didnt actually expect her to contact me, because I know girls get apprehensive after hooking up at a club.
The next day, today, in the afternoon, shes messages me.
"Hey, its Ness from the ***/***.
Hope you had a good night and not too hungover haha.
Twas nice to meet you."
I wait half an hour to reply.
"Hey, had a great night hah.
I still felt drunk when I woke up. Yes it was nice to meet you too,
we should hang out sometime."
no reply for a couple of hours
I wasnt heaps attracted but I think shes cute. She has a nice face and a little chubby.
So if I want to see her, whats my next step? how do I play this?
In my other unrelated thread, I ask for help also.
Im also doing a little online dating, I mention in my other thread. Im trying to create options for myself. very inexperienced and im 23.
http://sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=189996
Will
Just out for a boys night last night, wasnt really trying to pick up. We were drinking heavily, I had about 4 pints of beer. We're in a place with a massive sausage ratio, only 5 girls and like 20 guys.
Just for the record, I dont do cold approaches at all.
My friend challenges me to go and chat with 3 girls across from us. lol I just realised that they could have sat in many other empty seats away from us, but instead they chose to sit next to us. Pretty much an approach invitation in hindsight.
Wasnt heaps attracted to any of them off the bat, 2 were average, and 1 was cute. I did this as a challenge to myself and for some fun. Even if I get blown out, I would just laugh at myself.
I ask if their seat is taken, and they say no, positively. I sit down, and make a joke about the sausage ratio, I tell them I like their odds and theyre outnumbered 6 to 1. They all smile/laugh. One of them does most of the talking, the redhead, who is the motherhen. There is a cute looking blonde who is a little chubby, but has a nice face. And a quiet brunette, who is 'sick' and doesnt say anything.
We banter back and forth. The motherhen challenges me multiple times in different ways, but I demonstrate they cant affect me, I laugh along and tease them back. The conversation doesnt really stop, just good vibing. . I didnt bring them into the convo, never occured to me. All of my 3 friends are taken, except one of them, maybe I should have just brought him in, to disarm the hen. But hes an inexperienced wingman.
I chat with the girls for about 30-40 minutes, then my friends (across from me), want to venue change. The girls tell me where theyre going, we're going some where else. We exchange pleasantries and we leave. We go to the other place, we stay for an hour. Then my mate wants us to go the place the girls were going. I didnt really care...probably why im single. So we go there, and my mate finds them on the dance floor LOL.
The sick brunette went home, and its just the redhead and the blonde left. My and my good looking mate (taken) start dancing next to them, while we all make eyes and laugh at each other. My mate disarms the redhead chick for me by dancing with her and I dance with the blonde.
We have a break, and get a drink. We come back, and start dancing near them again. The blonde is getting hit on by some random single guy (dancing), and rejects him in front of us with body language. My mate who is a natural keeps whispering in my ear about how much the blonde girl is into me, turns out he is dead on the money.
I start actually dancing with her, like spinning her a few times, and dancing while holding her hands. I dont know what im doing but I make it fun, and shes loving it. She laughs at my dancing, and we keep mucking around for like 20min. Then its just us, our friends have taken their leave for a reason or another. I stop her, and drag her over to the side of the dance floor. And I go in for the kiss, we makeout for a good 12-15 seconds, and I pull out first. Shes smiling. She starts asking me questions about what I do and such.
Her friend is outside the place, and is hasseling her with text messages. I take her hand and lead her out. She says she has to go home with her friend. So I try to get her number but my phone is being retarded and she sees that. Instead I give her my number and she puts it into her phone. She doesnt want to kiss me because her friend is watching. They leave.
I didnt actually expect her to contact me, because I know girls get apprehensive after hooking up at a club.
The next day, today, in the afternoon, shes messages me.
"Hey, its Ness from the ***/***.
Hope you had a good night and not too hungover haha.
Twas nice to meet you."
I wait half an hour to reply.
"Hey, had a great night hah.
I still felt drunk when I woke up. Yes it was nice to meet you too,
we should hang out sometime."
no reply for a couple of hours
I wasnt heaps attracted but I think shes cute. She has a nice face and a little chubby.
So if I want to see her, whats my next step? how do I play this?
In my other unrelated thread, I ask for help also.
Im also doing a little online dating, I mention in my other thread. Im trying to create options for myself. very inexperienced and im 23.
http://sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=189996
Will
