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ok yea im acting a little too desperate probably because I am... I know the way to dump desperation is to create more opportunities for myself and change my mindset, so im going out alot more lately and im trying to meet more people. Yeah I wish I had pushed the onus on her more firmly when...

Im that guy who was trying to hit that thai chick :P we meet again. So this week I decided to try online dating for the first time. Im 23 and live in sydney. I made a profile on oasis active and pof. Anyway, I messaged a heap of girls that I found attractive and I get rejected off the bat...

hahah its the thought that counts :P

Ok sooo its over, and im okay. ***Update**** This is regarding the thai girl (girl #1) I continued to flirt with her over text, and I then took her out to the movies to see twilight. I was chatting with her while walking to the cinema and in line, and we were getting along pretty well. I...

Ok sooo its over, and im okay. ***Update**** This is regarding the thai girl (girl #1) I continued to flirt with her over text, and I then took her out to the movies to see twilight. I was chatting with her while walking to the cinema and in line, and we were getting along pretty well. I...

I am very similar as well, and have similar problems. I try to focus all of my attention on the people im with, just having fun, this is how I lose my heavy self consciousness. Also when im drunk, im a crazy extroverted

Reading this made me happy. : )

UPDATE!!!! last saturday night So..i continued to flirt with this thai girl over text since we met up She did cancel on me the Saturday before last, like I mentioned a couple of posts ago, to have dinner with her friend. And she was working pretty much every other day. So last week, ( 1...

Ok so next time ill be slightly evasive/mysterious without being rude

thanks I needed to hear some cold truths myself

So ive been flirting with the thai bird over facebook and the sms still. Not the best I know. Im just trying to make sure the interest/chasing is mutual, which I think it is... Im trying to balance the comfort with being more sexual and flirty. I started to shut down on the advice bull**** she...

Im starting to read alot of interesting non fictional books like about lots of topics: psychology, evolution, and spirituality... you cant beat exercise for turning negative energy into something positive. Im trying to play less video games...I am so addicted lol You want your interests...

Ive been debating this same thing in my head lately... im a 23 year old virgin, and this girl is interested in me. But I am still not prepared to deceive her into sex under the pretense that I want to date her, if I dont. Its harder when you're not actually sure of what you want.

she just told me I was a good listener, lol fvck

Guys i should probably have responded better to your responses as well. I took what I could from them. Im being too considerate, and im not acting as if we're both are sexual beings Im getting too ahead of myself with the bull**** Im building too much comfort and not enough attraction Im being...

- continued Story 2- happened inside of the time frame of story 1. Girl #3 is the girl above. Girl #3 eventually learns that i'm a virgin and have never had a girlfriend; and then decides to make it her mission to get me a girl. This eventually leads to an opportunity with one of her...

Okay I wrote a post so long, that it will fit in only 2 posts. Regarding the current stuff: Thanks for the input guys, i'm not surprised that i've made mistakes...I just don't like lying or being deceptive, maybe I have to become more comfortable with simply omitting parts of the whole...

What this man said.

Im loving this thread :) In my limited experience, being sexy and attractive is more of a mindset than an objective quality. You become sexy because you know it. You just know it, and it becomes true.

Hey guys, I wanted to update and maybe get a quick opinion or two...hard to trust my own sometimes on this subject. So...this thai girl, I went and saw her (she lives in the city, and I live 40 min outside in suburbia. I don't really know my way the city at all...never honestly had a reason...