Lol, i had the woman who lives opposite me came over and started chatting and she asked if i wanted to go out sometime.
I just said "really sorry, but i really am too busy to be seeing anyone right now"
Just tell them the truth in a way that isn't too harsh, and they will get the message.
Mix in some serious conversations when the topic goes that way. Watch the news, read, get some opinions.
If you clown around all the time, you will be seen that way, if you show there is more under the surface then the world is your oyster.
You lower your standards or values to fit in to her world view.
You are immediately available all of the time.
You care too much about what she thinks.
You ring her too much, give too many gifts.
When you get to the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on.
I always approach situations with the mindset "what am i supposed to learn from this" it helps me to try to be objective about what is going on, and to see where i am going wrong, and what lessons there are for me to learn...
Also, be aware that it will probably turn her into a materialistic bi0tch, my friends wife went down that path and went from a relatively chilled relaxed woman, into a money hungry crazy h0.
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