Signs of desperation?

[slitherjef]

We all know desperation is bad, but some of us may not know what some of the signs of desperation are. I figured we could get a list compiled of signs desperation so others can catch on

So, pros, lets hear some signs of desperation

 

[DonGorgon]

1. You call more than she does..
2. You spend too much money on her early on
3. You try to hold her hand alot
4. You ask her why she didnt pic up the phone or call back
5. when she flakes you get mad..

 

[Sir Juanalot]

1. You lower your standards or values to fit in to her world view.
2. You are immediately available all of the time.
3. You care too much about what she thinks.
4. You ring her too much, give too many gifts.

 

[tick37]

1. Saying or doing things that scream "I'm not good enough".

• Saying, "Please return my call".
• Making it known that you want a relationship.
• When you don't receive a call, you get mad.
• When, "Where is this relationship going?" is something you ask.
• Asking about exes or getting mad about other dudes.
• Waiting to hear from her before you make plans.

2. Appearing to care too much.

• Willingness to bend over backwards.
• Too eager to please.
• Available all the time.

3. Giving up too much (offer a mental challenge).
4. A poor attitude about yourself and assuming that you are not attractive enough or good enough. This will cause you to over compensate and start to chase them.

• Chasing causes them to run. It's easier to attract than chase them down.
• Over compensating means calling too much or buying their love via gifts.
• It's about mystery and creating intrigue!

5. Being afraid and making a decision out of the fear of losing the other person. Choose not to be willing to give yourself up.
6. Allowing disrespect from the other person and not making it intolerable. You're not prioritizing your dignity when you're doing this.
7. Not knowing what you want because this will cause you to have a harder time expressing yourself.
8. Jumping in too fast (slow and easy wins this race).
9. Letting them feel they have you under their thumb.
10. Letting them think they are the "whole enchilada".
11. You make yourself too accessible, and this will cause the relationship to always be on the other person's terms.
12. You don't keep previously made plans.
13. You never have plans for "last minute requests" (always tell a girl you already have plans if she wants to make last minute plans).

 

[LostAndConfused]

3. You try to hold her hand alot

Isn't that kino? Or do you mean to an excessive amount, like the point where you want every around you look at you two holding hands giving off the "look at me, I have a girlfriend" douchebaggy aura.