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Not really interested in discussing the relative merits of friends vs time as friends, as it's ultimately a pointless discussion and nothing to do with the OP, as far as im concerned, friends are friends regardless of time. I have all the answers i need, thanks again to the contributors...

I'm not sure what you are asking here, they are both friends, and i treat them equally, regardless of the time i've known them.

I've already done that. Nothing to see here, move along.

So, friendship has some kind of timer on it, based on how long you have known people? Odd, i though friends were just friends. Gonna hit 10 post limit again soon i reckon, who made this rule up, its truly stupid? quick edit - I haven't slept with her, just in case you thought i had. Was...

Just wanted to comment on this. Is the world so black and white to you that you don't offer support to friends? I'm her friend, and thats what friends do, make sure they are ok in a time of crisis. The fact that i started having feelings for her is neither here nor there. I know myself...

Ok, based on the advice in this thread, i've decided to just remain friends with her. The situation is way too full of pitfalls to contemplate. FYI, im 37, have had several LTR's in my time, and enough ONS's, bit bored of ONS's though they have their moments. Been single for about 3 years...

Cheers for the replies all, just got back from a weekend away. Will post tomorrow when i've had a chance to sleep and digest all that has been said.

To be honest, i have been too busy to really think about women with everything else that has been going on in my life lately, thats why this has kicked me in the ass a bit as i wasn't expecting it. I'll be free to do as i please in a couple of years when im financially free, and was putting...

Summed up perfectly, hence the dilemma and the original post.

Cheers for the replies people, especially KontrollerX and WestCoaster. Just to clarify, i haven't made a move on her precisely for the reasons above. I could feel my objectivity slipping, and needed more opinions from unconnected people. KontrollerX, you speak a lot of sense. I guess i...

Anyone complaining about the price of petrol needs to move to the UK :D

Theres also a thing called happiness, but it seems that you all think this is a bad move, which i will have to consider.

I just doubt very much that it would come to that, i've know him for a long long time, and we have been to hell and back together. He is happy now with his new woman, and i can't see it being an issue. I've had friends ask me the same question on ex's and i've always said go for it, if you...

How so? If something was gonna happen, i'd sit him down and have a chat, and if he was against it, i'd back off. He wouldn't though, i know him well enough.

Well, she's not his wife anymore. And if it isnt me it will be some other random person :D

Ok, first time asking for advice here. One of my best mates just (well, about 6 weeks ago) left his wife for another woman. They had been together for just over 10 years. She is devastated, and very upset. I've been a bit of an emotional tampon with her, as i used to do a lot of...

What tone of voice was it delivered in? I mean, theres "i'd rather go out with you" doggy eyes and smile, and "i'd rather go out with you" looks like she just trod in dog turd.

What do you believe in? not talking god n shizzle, what are your drives, ambitions etc?

It's quite easy to stare at the things you dont have, while completely missing the things you do. What you do seem to be missing, is being comfortable and happy being you, that comes from within. Read the prophet and other books on finding yourself, look inside to find the answers you are...

"Hey there girls, i need your opinion on something, see my friend over there? (point to some random), he wants to know if you think im hot" :D Guage reactions and carry on. Cheesy but funny, if they crackup you are half way there.