How do I tell if a woman is being friendly or flirting.

constantpro

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A women in the grocery store started talking with me about
some green tea she saw me reading about. I wasn't sure if she was just dropping knowledge to help me or if she was interested .

How do you tell ?

I have some friends that think every woman thats nice to them wants them lol ..
 

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constantpro said:
A women in the grocery store started talking with me about
some green tea she saw me reading about. I wasn't sure if she was just dropping knowledge to help me or if she was interested .

How do you tell ?

I have some friends that think every woman thats nice to them wants them lol ..
The door is open:

YOU start flirting with her, and see what happens.

If she wants to flirt she will. Game on.
 

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How can you tell? If it's not obvious to you, ask her for her phone number.
 

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Lok at it from this view, it doens't matter. IF she is then she is and if she isn't she isn't it's all about you and if you want her or not. If you do go get it.
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Ask to see her again. If you get "I have a boyfriend" or "I'm a lesbian" then she isnt interested. If she is, you have a phone number and a coffee date.
 

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^^ up there. :crackup:

it doesn't matter. just ask her out & make moves. you'll find out then.
 

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JackPrescott said:
Ask to see her again. If you get "I have a boyfriend" or "I'm a lesbian" then she isnt interested. If she is, you have a phone number and a coffee date.
I asked the chick for her number last week, and she said she had a boyfriend. I told her I didn't ask her about her problems, and she was stunned. She didn't know what to say. Then she said he was very sweet. I just told her that he would be very sweet if he cooked breakfast for us in the morning, and she just laughed her head off. Then I just walked away.
 

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I was wondering about this too. I have met chicks that would give me the common IOI's like light punches on the arm and they giggle/laugh about anything I say even if it wasnt that funny...I figured that maybe they were just nervous around me but not necessarily interested?
 

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Always assume the sale. Like Fonzie once said. sometimes when a girl says no, she means yes. But when she say's I'm calling the cops, she's serious.

Rebound Material, girls don't get nervous around guys they aren't interested in. Works the same if you reverse the sexes, yes?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Nighthawk said:
Always assume the sale. Like Fonzie once said. sometimes when a girl says no, she means yes. But when she say's I'm calling the cops, she's serious.

Rebound Material, girls don't get nervous around guys they aren't interested in. Works the same if you reverse the sexes, yes?
Great point.
 
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