Tough to do comparisons but I know I've been in that position where you feel trapped and miserable by her plans. In many cases it brews until things boil over into a fight.
What I've always found afterwards was that the reality of the situation was never as bad as my mind was making it out...
Through the many relationships I've had I feel like I've lived out this situation many times over (minus the breakup).
In the grand scheme of things this was one weekend of your life. If you can't commit to something she wanted to do then a relationship is probably not in the cards for you.
I think she's already giving you the brush off. At least warning that its coming.
What you should have said....
Her: I'm high maintenance.
You: Well I might keep you around if you don't act up too badly.
Her: I'm not looking for a relationship.
You: Relationship? Take it easy...
Fair enough.
What you need to say is, sorry for being a jealous guy but I have been burned too many times in the past. You lying to me isn't going to make things any better either. I understand why you did it but if we continue on this path it's already over. There's no use arguing over...
You have painted two very opposite pictures there. It's a very polar way of thinking and that is when problems arise. The reality will be somewhere in between. Now is that really so bad?
I don't mind my wife working and I don't mind helping maintain the household. We are going thru life and...
Which came first? The jealousy or the lying? It's a chicken vs. the egg debate that goes no where.
Trust is a two way street. If one person has trust issues then its up to the other to make that person feel right about the relationship. "Honey, you don't have to worry about sh!t like...
Good post Warrior. It sucks that this place has sunken to the state it is in. Was it inevitable? How many frustrated men can you gather in one place and still keep a positive message?
The only thing that will keep this place alive in a positive sense is if members such as yourself, wait...
To build attraction when the ultimate goal is more than just sex.
I guess if sex is all you care about then waiting would seem stupid. Some guys want more however. For the guys who do have the ability to manipulate a woman's emotions this becomes a valuable tool. You can obviously take it...
You've seen OTHER guys helping but what about you? A quick look at your post history doesn't come up with much. In fact if you go back to the beginning of your time here this flame war scenario just plays itself out over and over and over. You've been doing this exact same thing for TEN...
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I'm not trying to shame anyone. I'm calling people out for making excuses. Every single day this site is bombarded with posts about how fvcked up women are and how society is a mess. I take issue because letting those things get in our way is not what being a DJ is about. We all...
Nice work Wilko. As you say for entertainment purposes.
I don't think you've really said anything too bad. Just some mild busting on her.
You probably could've worded the last sequence differently. Maybe, "Are you sure about that? Ok here's you chance, ask me something, and it...
Sounds like her interest level peaked and you missed it. Her telling you she's attracted to you but more than "handsome" means she thinks you are sexy. Telling you she loves when you touch her and hold is her way of saying she wants sex.
It sounds like she gave you several opportunities to...
It's OK tit no need to get frustrated.
Don't you worry about me either. Save your advice for those guys who want life lessons from a bitter twisted misogynist who has only managed to meet one worthwhile woman in 37 years. Sounds like you've got this sh!t dialed dude! :up:
Actually if you...
NKOTB!!! :rockon: :rockon: :rockon: :rockon: :rockon: :rockon:
Sounds like you dodged a bullet man.
Better luck with the next one.
P.S. which guy was it?
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