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OCD can manifest itself in many ways. Many think if someone has OCD that they are picky about keeping things clean and germ free almost obsessively. But I've known women with OCD who were really sloppy because OCD can manifest as hording or collecting cats or anything really..... One I dated...

The only advice I can give anyone initiating contact through social media is what you are seeing a person (not just women) post on platforms isn't really who they are, it is what they want people to believe they are. It's also as @Bingo-Player stated. Women will use avoidance when they are...

Jordan Peterson? Lobsters with posture? Okay. Peterson just wants men to be useful tools of religious conservatives. I went to one of his lectures on wisdom from the Old Testament it was hilarious. FYI Social Conservatives and Liberal Feminists are two sides of the same coin. One wants men...

Body language is big. How you carry yourself is very important, but you CAN NOT fake it. Stand up straight, good posture, shoulders back. Walk with confidence.... take big steps, always look in the direction you are going and never look at your feet. Make eye contact.... smile. Be in good...

Here is some advice learned with over 35 years of experience in dating (and going). If you ever get to the point where you 'believe' you have to help and give advice on how she is living her life... dump her. In my younger years, I would do things like the OP found himself in... bottom-line...

I agree. For a pre-nup to be enforceable, even in community property states, there MUST be reciprocity and conditions attached to the agreement. I also agree that if you are a person of means, marrying someone bringing nothing to the table accept their bodies... you are a fool to marry. But...

Depends on the state... others say 'Red' v. 'Blue' I'm not sure what that means since that has no legal standing in a family court. Red states like Florida, Alabama, Mississippi, and South Carolina are NOT community property states, and I know plenty of men that lived there get raked over the...

True. Any person, not just women, have the potential to be really great or an absolute nightmare of chaos. It is best to just assume nothing. As them out, see if she shows up, you have a good time, rinse and repeat until something develops or doesn't. But no man should spend any time at all...

As others will tell you I really don't like the term 'spinning plates'. It is casual dating... dating is supposed to be fun, if it is not fun then why do it? In the OP's situation he would like to be in an exclusive relationship. That's fine, if that is what someone wants... then your purpose...

Yes, alcohol is bad for you. It is a toxin. The older you get the worst it is on your body and mind. If you can figure out a way not to drink ever, you will add years to your life.

I was in Orleans Parish until I just couldn't take it anymore... the constant fighting with the NOS&WB and Entergy-Orleans is just soul sucking. My kids never went to public schools, they went to private school... mostly because I went to Public schools in Jefferson Parish and the only thing I...

Exactly, when a woman suggests we do something that I did not plan, I always say "Sounds great, you can ask me out and pay for it." In most cases, they think you are being an @ss... and I never hear from them again. This happens to me occasionally. Most recently back in January. Without...

Truth is I'm pretty sure I will not be in Louisiana in 2027. Our current governor is an idiot. Myopically focused on his social conservative base. As a business owner in this state I will say that my biggest problem is my rising insurance rates, rising property tax rates, rising crime rates...

Completely agree. The minute you are spending time trying to figure out what a woman wants, or worrying about what they might think. If you find yourself thinking about a woman you are casually dating for more than 5 minutes when you are not with her... thinking about what you two are going to...

Don't like the term 'spinning plates' because it makes causal dating sound hard... it's not. You date to have fun and be with people... that's it. The minute something becomes hard... well it's no longer any fun. Dating is supposed to be fun. There is 'always another guy she is into'...

Generally speaking, women really don't care what men want. They care about what they want and how a man helps them attain their desires. But to be honest, men are the same way, both partners work to have their needs met, while compromising when possible or necessary. But it is true that women...

There is a reason he was elected governor three times. Yes.... he used his position to often enrich himself, but the truth is he was actually a good governor. Yeah... you had to tolerate some of his questionable behavior... but when he was governor... the state was run well. Things got...

I am from Louisiana, and I had a cousin that actually worked in Edward's administration in the early to mid 90s. When I was in the Army on leave, my cousin invited me to the Governor's Mansion to meet him and take a little tour. As we were walking into the mansion, out came his 2nd wife...

Every head football coach LSU has ever had, within a year of taking the job, ends up divorced and with a woman half his age. This is all completely normal human behavior. Women will always be attracted to wealth and fame. As long as the older man does not delude himself into what is going on...

The best advice I can give any man is to study Stoic philosophy. Start with reading Epictetus, "Discourses of Epictetus", or if you prefer a fictionalized summary of this philosophy, which is a lot more entertaining... read "A Man in Full" by Tom Wolfe. Don't bother with the Netflix...