Please don't obsess about a woman you know nothing about....

[oc16]

Maybe she's that cute brunette you see on campus, at the gym, your local barista, another area of the work office....etc.

You've never talked to this woman, but maybe you thought she has been checking you out. There is also something about "her look", that makes her seem special and better than other women. If only she would enter into your life; all of your problems will go away and you will be content.

PLEASE STOP!

You know nothing about her. She can be a b**ch, an airhead or even worse not available (e.g. engaged or married) and here you are fantasizing what it would be like to have her as a girlfriend.

It's illogical and not good for your mental health.

I am writing this, because I am starting to feel this way about a woman in the gym and I know I am wrong for thinking this way.

 

[RangerMIke]

True.

Any person, not just women, have the potential to be really great or an absolute nightmare of chaos. It is best to just assume nothing. As them out, see if she shows up, you have a good time, rinse and repeat until something develops or doesn't. But no man should spend any time at all thinking about a woman until she shows signs of interest.

It like the old saying, "No matter how hot a woman is, there is some man out there that is sick of her sh1t."

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

All women will murder you in your sleep under the right circumstances.

All men too.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

I'm an agent of chaos and I mistrust any sign of order anywhere.