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Complaining is not masculine behavior. If a man is in a situation that is not making him happy... well, a man should change the situation. If the ramification of leaving is 'too hard' or potentially damaging... then a man should suck it up and drive on.... while continuing to work to change...

Religion is getting more and more difficult to defend. I know a lot of women who no longer follow traditional religions, mostly because the dogma of those faiths has elements of women s second class citizens. Many of the non-religious women gravitate towards non-traditional belief systems. I...

Invite women to go along with what you like to do. It isn't rocket science. If you don't like to do anything... well women are not going to be interested in, you. Get good hobbies, get out and do stuff. Meet women and bring them along... if she likes what you are doing and what you do with...

I didn't say it was... but if someone is looking for a 'relationship' when something like this happens, you have to move on.

True... but this is relationship advice. If you are not looking for a relationship then, yeah... a partner getting too clingy too fast is a red flag.

Well it all worked out. Relationships, if you want to do this has to be where both partners are getting what they want. Word of advice... it's not your fault. You really can't do a 'relationship' if you are sexually incompatible. Maybe she is just worn down and tired from work, I know this...

Ask women out.... keep doing it and do not let the possibility of rejection stop you. You will get rejected... in fact you will get rejected a lot more than a woman actually showing up on a date.

Happens more than you might think. Basic human nature... we fear loss more than we value potential gain. There is also a factor of curiosity.... we always wonder what happened when situations change beyond expectations. If a man stops reaching out, when he had been pursuing she will wonder...

None. Attraction is emotional: compatibility is rational. Compatibility is a function of 'interest' not attraction.

I turn 57 this week! Good question... and I should clarify though analogy. If someone has the means and ability to travel... great. Travel. But I know a woman who lives to travel. She is 40... she finds a job, works for 9 months... quits, then takes 3 months off traveling overseas, comes...

1. Tries to change what you planned for a date. 2. Sharing too much too soon. 3. She b1tches about her exes. 4. She is messy.. messy car, messy purse, messy home. 5. Too much overseas travel. This is a big one... vacations take priority over everything else. This demonstrates a willingness to...

As others have mentioned... You should only be concerned about what you can control. You cannot control women, oh sure she might go along with your agenda for a while... but if she is doing something she does not want to do... well... then you the man will have to pay for that. The real issue...

Tim Williams. I actually met him in an airport once... the similarity is pretty stark. Nice guy... I joked that I'm frequently mistaken for him ever since he started doing Tivago commercials... while we were talking there were several people that kept taking second looks.

Just tell her that you hope her 'friend' is doing well and put it on her shoulders to reschedule (which she won't) then forget about her. DO not reach out to her at all until she contacts you... which like I said, in most cases she will not. The worst thing you can do is to keep trying. The...

Wrong attitude. You should not think in terms of a timeline. Just do self-improvement.... and it takes as long as it does. As far as physical training goes. In my experience it takes 3 months of working out and eating right, at least every other day to start 'seeing' results. You will...

When a woman says she just wants to be friends, at least in the USA, she isn't really attracted to you with little chance at anything romantic happening. With ridiculous effort, you may be able to get her to 'settle' for you, but as soon as someone better (in her mind) comes along you will get...

These people make money selling common sense. It's crazy. I wouldn't say what they are selling is 'garbage' but every so often another seduction guru we re-package what we already intuitively know... make a few changes... and declare that it's all new stuff they 'just discovered'. What really...

It doesn't sound like this couple is ready to be parents. Very unfortunate... Now some advice to the OP: Assume the kid is yours until you can demonstrate otherwise... yes... paternity test in 9 months will settle that, so until then, assume your life has changed. Worrying about it now is a...

I've noticed since Covid that older women are going after younger men in increased numbers. I used to never have any problems with women close to my age.... Mid 40s to mid 50s.... but now, I've had women my age get turned off because we are the same age. It is what it is, nothing we can do...

Women today are more focused on the physical appearance of men more than any time in our history. Women have a lot of options... it's always been that way... they are not motivated as much by the quality of life (resources, stability) as they are by how you look. If a man isn't spending at...