How to maximize the amount of dates you get

[Haywood202]

Make sure u look good, good body, good fashion, good hair, get professional pics taken (importsnt, basement pics are a big mistake)


- run all the most popular dating apps at the same time with membership with professional pics

- bar, club, etc cold approach. I think cold approach randomly in public is weird unless high IOIs

- social media like Instagram, following 100s of girls in ur city per day

- running social media ads to girls in ur age range in ur City. To ur profile. Follow and message girls who like ur pic or follow u etc... you can reach thousands of girls per month with just a few $ per day

Am I missing anything?

 

[EyeBRollin]

Yes, you missed the most important thing:

To get the most dates, you must ask for the most dates.

 

[Haywood202]

Yes, you missed the most important thing:

To get the most dates, you must ask for the most dates.

Facts man, thanks

 

[Hamurabimbi]

The world is one big hunting ground.

Don’t overlook day-to-day activities where opportunities present themselves.
such as:
Work. Not just coworkers. But clients, customers…
And, girls working. Baristas, Clerks…

Festivals, coffeeshops, gym, museums, classes…

 

[Haywood202]

The world is one big hunting ground.

Don’t overlook day-to-day activities where opportunities present themselves.
such as:
Work. Not just coworkers. But clients, customers…
And, girls working. Baristas, Clerks…

Festivals, coffeeshops, gym, museums, classes…

How would one make moves on a coworker or client? I feel like it would be really awkward forever if they rejected you

 

[BaronOfHair]

- social media like Instagram, following 100s of girls in ur city per day




Am I missing anything?

Get off Instagram. You're a heterosexual man, not UC San Diego freshgirl who's LARPing as glamour model, while pissing away Mommy and Daddy's $$$$$ on a bachelor's in Early Childhood Ed

 

[Hamurabimbi]

How would one make moves on a coworker or client? I feel like it would be really awkward forever if they rejected you

Most girls are fairly obvious if they are interested. Of course, with it being work, caution & judgement is required.
I asked a coworker out. She gave me a soft ‘no’. I asked her out a couple of months later. She said; ‘Yes’.

 

[Haywood202]

Get off Instagram. You're a heterosexual man, not UC San Diego freshgirl who's LARPing as glamour model, while pissing away Mommy and Daddy's $$$$$ on a bachelor's in Early Childhood Ed

For olders insyagram is dead but I'm young, it's the no.1 way to meet ppl

 

[BaronOfHair]

For olders insyagram is dead but I'm young, it's the no.1 way to meet ppl

If I may paraphrase Hammurambi's earlier post: Festivals, coffeeshops, gym, museums, classes are places out in reality teeming with many intriguing, high quality people. Awesome women included

 

[SW15]

Am I missing anything?

What you are suggesting is basically doing everything and seeing what sticks.

 

[RangerMIke]

Ask women out.... keep doing it and do not let the possibility of rejection stop you. You will get rejected... in fact you will get rejected a lot more than a woman actually showing up on a date.

 

[Solomon]

The world is one big hunting ground.
Work. Not just coworkers. But clients, customers…
And, girls working. Baristas, Clerks…

This is terrible advice if you have a high-earning career(or are trying to move up in a company to earn one) this is guaranteed to get you fired. Unless you plan to work a job short term at McDonald's/Grocery store/Amazon or something like that i.e. college kid home for the summer, 2nd job for 6 months trying to earn some quick income, I would not risk dating a co-worker much less a client in 2024. It's asking to get fired!

I worked at a company 6 years ago, there was this pretty boy. He was boning 2 women at the same(One was Latina the other Black) they were both in different departments it was a big company. However, no building is big enough if you trying to run game on 2 women. The Latina found out that he was using the money she was loaning him to bone the black girl. He took the black to a Jamician cruise using her money (she made very good money) Long story short the Latina got him fired by manipulating text messages and giving it to HR.

The guy is doing fine now last I heard but that situation messed him up for a bit, not worth losing a good career over some strange, granted the guy got greedy trying to bang multiple girls at the same time but regardless this situation could happen to anyone even if you just dealing with 1 girl at a time. A slighted woman who is scorned will have no issues trying to fucc up your life if she feels disrespected

 

[pipeman84]

Am I missing anything?

Yeah, self respect and the desire to accomplish something meaningful, to develop yourself as a man. Have those and the women will come.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

This is terrible advice if you have a high-earning career(or are trying to move up in a company to earn one) this is guaranteed to get you fired. Unless you plan to work a job short term at McDonald's/Grocery store/Amazon or something like that i.e. college kid home for the summer, 2nd job for 6 months trying to earn some quick income, I would not risk dating a co-worker much less a client in 2024. It's asking to get fired!

I worked at a company 6 years ago, there was this pretty boy. He was boning 2 women at the same(One was Latina the other Black) they were both in different departments it was a big company. However, no building is big enough if you trying to run game on 2 women. The Latina found out that he was using the money she was loaning him to bone the black girl. He took the black to a Jamician cruise using her money (she made very good money) Long story short the Latina got him fired by manipulating text messages and giving it to HR.

The guy is doing fine now last I heard but that situation messed him up for a bit, not worth losing a good career over some strange, granted the guy got greedy trying to bang multiple girls at the same time but regardless this situation could happen to anyone even if you just dealing with 1 girl at a time. A slighted woman who is scorned will have no issues trying to fucc up your life if she feels disrespected

I have a high-earning professional career and have been doing this kind of stuff for years. Most Work environments are sexual hotpots. Yes. There is a risk.
A few years ago. I was dating a coworker, and, for a variety of reasons. it became the Talk of the Town. We were known as the ‘Power Couple’. Several of my managers called me in for a conference and expressed concern that if things didn’t work out, I’d feel compelled to switch to a different location. And they didn’t want that to happen.

In most every job I’ve had & at most every company I’ve been with, there has been plenty of hanky-panky.

The key is to not be aggressive & let the woman lead. And. End it well. A large number of my ex-s are friends. Some are fanatically loyal still.

 

[Solomon]

I have a high-earning professional career and have been doing this kind of stuff for years. Most Work environments are sexual hotpots. Yes. There is a risk.
A few years ago. I was dating a coworker, and, for a variety of reasons. it became the Talk of the Town. We were known as the ‘Power Couple’. Several of my managers called me in for a conference and expressed concern that if things didn’t work out, I’d feel compelled to switch to a different location. And they didn’t want that to happen.

In most every job I’ve had & at most every company I’ve been with, there has been plenty of hanky-panky.

The key is to not be aggressive & let the woman lead. And. End it well. A large number of my ex-s are friends. Some are fanatically loyal still.

I'm not saying it doesn't happen but if things go left or for whatever reason a woman decides to go nuclear that could be your job. Like I said I've seen many people lose their job or reputations messing with co-workers, IMO it's not worth it

 

[Hamurabimbi]

I'm not saying it doesn't happen but if things go left or for whatever reason a woman decides to go nuclear that could be your job. Like I said I've seen many people lose their job or reputations messing with co-workers, IMO it's not worth it

I don’t disagree that there are risks.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

You must continue building your pipeline of women. Continue going on more and more first dates, even when you are dating some women, keep at least 1 night a week for a first date. Over time, at some point you'll have so many you have to start cutting some loose.

Too many guys shut themselves off from the dating pool once they start dating one woman and basically focus all their energy of her.

This does 2 things.

One, it makes you come across as more needy and desperate no matter how much you think it doesn't because you are only communicating with 1 person rather than 7 or 8, meaning every communication with her takes on far greater importance than it would otherwise.

Second, if things don't work out with her you start from ground zero again with no prospects instead of just continuing on with the other 6 or 7 women in the pipeline and having an opening for a new position in the pipeline that you can fill with a new first date with a new woman.

So many guys do this all wrong and then wonder why they have these dry spells.

It's no different than if you have a well filled with water and you never replace the water in it. At some point it goes dry and then you have to do all the work to try and refill it again from the bottom versus filling it a little at a time as you use it so it constantly stays near the high point and it never runs dry.

 

[SW15]

Most Work environments are sexual hotpots.

I have observed more and more white collar working environments being more sexually sterile than sexual hotspots. The broader data set has shown that fewer couples have been forming in workplaces since the 1990s.

This is terrible advice if you have a high-earning career(or are trying to move up in a company to earn one) this is guaranteed to get you fired. Unless you plan to work a job short term at McDonald's/Grocery store/Amazon or something like that i.e. college kid home for the summer, 2nd job for 6 months trying to earn some quick income, I would not risk dating a co-worker much less a client in 2024. It's asking to get fired!

This has been my long time viewpoint on trying to seduce co-workers.

It's acceptable to try to seduce co-workers if you work some sort of McJob that doesn't matter that much and is easily replaceable. In a white collar setting, there's too much risk. Even trying to replace a lower end, $40,000 - $55,000/year white collar job is rather difficult. It might take 6 months of interviewing to get one of those jobs. It's not worth the risk. If you're trying to replace a $75,000+ range white collar job, it could take even longer than 6 months. I chose $75,000+ as the range for that based on the Semi-Successful thread that was started on this forum last year and gained a lot of traction.

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[Hamurabimbi]

I have observed more and more white collar working environments being more sexually sterile than sexual hotspots. The broader data set has shown that fewer couples have been forming in workplaces since the 1990s.



This has been my long time viewpoint on trying to seduce co-workers.

It's acceptable to try to seduce co-workers if you work some sort of McJob that doesn't matter that much and is easily replaceable. In a white collar setting, there's too much risk. Even trying to replace a lower end, $40,000 - $55,000/year white collar job is rather difficult. It might take 6 months of interviewing to get one of those jobs. It's not worth the risk. If you're trying to replace a $75,000+ range white collar job, it could take even longer than 6 months. I chose $75,000+ as the range for that based on the Semi-Successful thread that was started on this forum last year and gained a lot of traction.

Women Don't Want a Semi-Successful Man

Men in this category, $75k-$125k salary, relatively in shape, drive a good car, has a few hobbies, women do not want. Why? Because this man has standards. Women do not want to work for their men. Women of today want a simp or a millionaire. Simple as that. This is what society aka social media...

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