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Plenty of guys with long hair and who wear more vintage clothes have girlfriends. I don’t think the way that I dress is what’s really affecting whether I meet women or not

Man all I was doing was asking for help. I’m sorry if you feel like I’m just shooting down suggestions, but for me it does feel that hopeless. Maybe I need to pay a dating coach or something similar to put me on the right track. Perhaps what I’m going thru is above this forum’s pay grade

I am diagnosed with adhd and I have been since I was seven years old, but I’m not medicated since all those pills do is make me irritable. They do nothing to actually improve focus. I would indeed like to have a career but I have no idea what I would do for that. I wanted to study audio...

It’s not that I’m not trying to work, it’s more that my situation hasn’t loaned itself much opportunity for that. My adhd prevented me from getting good grades in high school and college, meaning that going to a good college and studying anything that may have led to a lucrative career were out...

Approaching would never be fun for me, and the women would be able to sense that. I think if I lived 100 years ago or earlier I would be one of those guys who got married via arrange marriage, but such institutions no longer exist. If there was some way in which introductions could be made for...

I’ll continue to work on physique. As for my hair I won’t cut it short, I look worse with short hair. If I went back to school idk what I’d even study. I’ve pretty much given up on having any actual career, if I got a job it would probably be nothing more illustrious than working at a guitar...

But like I said women nowadays are hostile to being approached. It’s clear they dont want me to bother them. I’ll never be one of those guys capable of approaching at this rate. I think I should go all in on dating apps, pay for them, improve my profile, and swipe on them all day. I think with...

All those seem to be objectively true tho. I’m describing my situation as I see it

Not possible

Sometimes the women I could settle for have redeeming qualities, but physically I’m not as attracted to them so I can never really catch feeling for them. I’m tired of mainly attracting women that are way more into me than I’m into them. I can’t force myself to settle, even if they have...

What makes you think I’m an incel? Right now I’m actually choosing not to have sex again until after I get a vasectomy. I’ve realized I’m not comfortable having sex unless I’m sterilized. Every time I had sex in the past I was so scared of getting a woman pregnant, and unless I have a vasectomy...

I really don't feel comfortable approaching women tho. I'm not making excuses, I just see no evidence that it would work. The fact of the matter is that most women today are hostile to the prospect of men approaching them, and if I tried to approach I would just be bothering them. I can't shake...

1. I lift weights and have decent muscle, but I need to get below 20% bodyfat. But I've always naturally been over 20% and it's like my body won't let me get any lower than that. I'd say physique wise that's the main thing holding me back. 2. I don't have any career unfortunately, my college...

If there's SJWs intrigued by Hinduism, then they know nothing of what Hinduism is all about, and they don't deserve to know. Real Hindus want to put a stop to stupid leftists trying to shoehorn new age mindset into Hindusim. I'm not looking for a Republican Christian woman either. Like I said...

With that I mean there are no women who are single and around my age. By dateable I mean women that I could and would date. The only women there when I attend religious lectures are over 40 and married

Bro I'm telling you cold approach won't work for someone like me. If you knew me irl you would understand. I wish there was an alternative to cold approach that I could actually use. There's no way I'd be able to get good at something like that. I'm a natural introvert and I have a very strong...

I don't associate with SJWs, and and SJWism and New Agesim have no place in Hinduism in all actuality. Fortunately the SJW and New Age types are more drawn to Buddhism since Buddhists don't believe in God. In the religious circles I frequent there are no SJWs, but there aren't any dateable women...

I mean I do want to improve but everything is overwhelming and there's a lot working against me. I apologize if I come across as annoying, I'm just really frustrated. It's not my intention to shoot down potential solutions, even if it may appear that way to you. I sincerely believe I have no...

I tried the vertical diet for a while and it kinda worked, but since then I've almost entirely stopped eating meat for religious reasons. Most of the protein that I get comes from milk and dairy, which is good except for the fact that vegetarian protein sources tend to have more carbs and are...

By now any of you regulars on here have probably seen my posts about the problems I have meeting women. As the years have gone by it's clear that I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place, and even after posting on here regularly for the better part of three months looking for advice I'm still...