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You know what, you just might be right. I do think the distance from the game in my case is pretty far. I haven't had sex in four years after all. And even if I improve I'll be too old to experience the kind of love life I wanted while still young. I wanted to have all these fun exciting love...

It's true I think that I'd be better off doing non-bar approaches if I went that route. Maybe somebody like me should get coaching but most of the PUA coaches appear to be scammers. I need one that's actually legit if I do that. But even if I potentially need coaching to overcome my fears...

I don't want to have kids anyway so my bloodline ending with me is of no concern. Thank you for at least being honest with me and not giving me any platitudes. That's respectable and I truly appreciate that

In the past I've tried to quit apps but I always end up coming back to them after a few weeks. It's like a drug addict vowing to get sober and then relapsing. Up to this point apps are the only way I've been able to be visible by women at all. In the past when I've tried to quit them I've always...

Ok this is all good but how do I become more exciting? Idk how I'd do that exactly. It's true that I'm a musician but not as many women listen to the kinda stuff my band puts out. You're right that I have a pessimistic attitude but that's how I always have been. Any time I've tried to be more...

Right now it's around 5 but there's only been a few votes

You may actually be onto something here. There's a few women I was with from like five or six years ago who have since lost weight, at least based on what I can extrapolate from social media. But when I was with them they were chubby. My last girlfriend had a few extra pounds but she still was...

I posted the nicest pic of me on there. A little lower than I thought it would be but it's only five votes. There's three notes saying they would have preferred a different hairstyle but my hair is longer in the pic than it is now.

If I approached a woman I wouldn’t be able to shake the feeling that I’m bother her and that she doesn’t want to talk to me. After all that sentiment appears to be what women are saying now. There’s so many women who say that they’re tired of being bothered and approached in public. Also as I’ve...

Alright cool I’ll check out the book

I'm absolutely sure they wouldn't know anybody. I do agree that our corporate overlords are deliberately trying to make more guys incel, and instead of actionable solutions to the incel problem, society just tries to make them complacent and ply them up with porno and video games

Well as far as family or friends making introductions for me I can't count on that. Maybe a paid matchmaking service would be better but that's still a long shot

I don't think they know anybody who knows someone I could date and would be well suited to me. But like I said it's pathetic to have to have your parents set you up with someone, at least in this present day. Like I was saying if I lived in past eras I probably would already have a wife at this...

There's no way my parents could set me up like that. This isn't the 19th century. If I was alive back then it's very likely that I would have met a woman thru those kinda channels, but that custom doesn't exist anymore outside of fundamentalist Christian circles. Even if they could it's kinda...

I'm already in therapy and have been for some time. There's little therapy can do in fixing my issues meeting women tho, at least that's what it seems like

Well once I get a vasectomy at least I'll never have to worry about accidental pregnancy again, and I'll be far more likely to have sex with any women I do meet even if those opportunities are few and far between. No woman is worth risking a pregnancy scare over

What's the neil strauss book called?

I have an account on photofeeler, I'll do that

What do I need to do, get pics professionally taken? On my profile rn I got a nice pic of me in a suit and I thought it would help get matches but it's made no difference. That pic wasn't professionally done tho

I think the fundamental problem is that I’ve always had to rely on apps and have never been capable of meeting women irl. If apps didn’t exist I’d still be a virgin. When I was a teenager I should have learned how to engage women irl like normal guys are supposed to, but it never happened