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So how can I find more attractive women that I can actually date? Mind you I'm not going for instagram models. I'm fine with girls that are a seven in the face, not fat, and with a nice rack. But it seems like most of the women who want anything to do with me are a tier below me in looks. Maybe...

Yeah I got the looks and on paper I should be able to get women at least as attractive as I am but I've only been with about two or three women who were actually kinda hot and those flings didn't last. With the rest I felt like I was being ripped off since I was settling those times. Maybe I...

What are the reasons?

But these guys are clearly less attractive than me and a lot of them look like they couldn't press an empty barbell overhead and are losing their hair. Meanwhile I look like I lift and have long blonde hair that isn't falling out. Yet I'm still stuck only getting to meet girls that are a tier or...

Still tho, are women really attracted to these unmasculine nerdy guys who still play nintendo and collect funkopops? Never thought in a million years that my biggest "competition" in the dating scene would be these types. I have no idea what I can do against this phenomenon

Ideally I want to have a lasting relationship with a woman I'm attracted to and who's compatible with me, somebody I'm really into and not just settling for. Idk if I'd get married on paper, I think what I want is a common law wife if that makes any sense. I don't want to be spinning any plates...

Idk bro I've seen guys way less attractive, masculine, and cool than me with hotter girls than I can usually get. I've lost count of how many times on the internet and irl I've seen the kind of girls I want to date going out with a guy that just sucks. It makes me think that there's something...

So I caved and started paying for hinge again. Probably won't have any difference in how many matches I get but for now we'll see. God I hate having to resort to this but my only hope to meet women is to make my profile on dating apps super awesome and super visible

It may be true that women of my generation are worse at signaling interest, but even so there's gotta be some IOIs that they're capable of showing. That said I never receive IOIs in public either way.

I don't really get IOIs from women in public, at least none that I ever notice. This makes me reluctant to approach as well

I'm attracted to sixes and sevens so long as they have a nice body, and my standards as far as women are concerned aren't actually that high. I'm not going for instagram model types. In terms of looks I'd ideally want a woman who's pretty attractive but not intimidatingly so. So like a girl with...

I snagged a pdf copy of Day Bang and read thru some of it. I like how it gives specific examples of different venues and has ideas about different openers. The latter is good since if I approached a girl I don't have much of an idea about what to say. However there's a few problems. The only...

Honestly tho I don't feel comfortable having any sex unless I'm sterilized. In the past whenever I slept with any woman I would always get very scared that I would accidentally get her pregnant. Even when I had a girlfriend who had a birth control implant I still got nervous about that. At the...

Not really sure about going back to school tho

I've made up my mind that I won't have sex again until after I get a vasectomy. But I don't want to sleep with just anyone. I'm sick of only getting attention from mid women as I've said. I don't want beer goggles bringing my standards down to much. Unless I'm attracted enough to a girl to...

I do the first two already, but in my case the problem with nofap is that it gives me beer goggles

I would grow a full beard if I could but I can't grow one. I've had a goatee with a mustache before and I prefer the look of just the mustache. Plenty of guys with mustaches have girlfriends, I don't see why women would perceive it negatively

I don't look as good without the mustache, without one I look too boyish. Idk if I'm ready to field test just yet, still wouldn't be able to bring myself to do it at this current time

Well what would you do if you were in a similar situation? Based on what's been written in this thread

Very nice meower