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  1. BergischerLöwe

    To vasectomy or not?

    Have those of you in this thread who have had vasectomies had any sort of complications from the surgery? My main reservation about getting one is that some guys report incurable chronic pain after a vasectomy. Anyone know how common this is? What is the level of pain immediately after the...
  2. BergischerLöwe

    How bad is the Testosterone crisis in men? The average 22 year old today has lower T levels than the average 67 year old had in the 1960s

    I take 5000 IU of d3 per day and every day I drink a half gallon of milk so there's plenty of fat in that
  3. BergischerLöwe

    How bad is the Testosterone crisis in men? The average 22 year old today has lower T levels than the average 67 year old had in the 1960s

    What are some ways we can naturally increase testosterone? I lift weights and travel by bicycle most of the time and it's common knowledge that being more physically active increases it. Diet wise I stay away from soy products, processed foods, and beef and instead almost always eat pure foods...
  4. BergischerLöwe

    No real motivation to meet/date girls anymore

    Rock n roll seems to be at least a bit more popular in central/eastern Europe and Scandinavia than it is in the states. Most of the people that are fans of my band and have actually bought our albums are in Europe. Granted my band's actual fanbase is pretty damn small, but in general most of the...
  5. BergischerLöwe

    No real motivation to meet/date girls anymore

    I mean I'm pretty introverted and I'm not really that relatable to most people so that always hampers my ability to meet women. I'm not unattractive but I got more of a niche look if that makes any sense. I've been told by a fair amount of people that I look kinda like Blake from workaholics if...
  6. BergischerLöwe

    No real motivation to meet/date girls anymore

    All these are good points, and I do agree those countries are more based. Never been to Rumania but perhaps you got a point about it
  7. BergischerLöwe

    No real motivation to meet/date girls anymore

    What makes those good?
  8. BergischerLöwe

    No real motivation to meet/date girls anymore

    Any excitement I've had about dating or trying to meet women is long gone. Hence why I made this very thread in the first place. I might be a little lazy when it comes to work but it's probably because I never really had to work in order to survive. The closest thing I have to work experience is...
  9. BergischerLöwe

    No real motivation to meet/date girls anymore

    I mean that sounds all good but it'd be a huge undertaking. Having to travel thousands of miles away just to look for women. I'm already not very good at meeting women to begin with so that problem would follow me all over the world. Guys like me just have to swipe and hope
  10. BergischerLöwe

    No real motivation to meet/date girls anymore

    Where would I go then? Czechia, Hungary, Slovakia, somewhere along those lines? Been to Hungary and Slovakia before but only for a weekend each. My favorite country in Europe is Liechtenstein, been there twice but it's very difficult to move there even if you're a German citizen such as myself...
  11. BergischerLöwe

    No real motivation to meet/date girls anymore

    I live in a suburb of the capital city of a midwestern state
  12. BergischerLöwe

    No real motivation to meet/date girls anymore

    So is the answer to look abroad? Doesn't seem like I'd be able to date foreign women without living in another country. Right now I'm stuck here until I get the money from inheritance so I can buy land, and right now I'm not sure where to go. Back in 2019 I was in Austria for a semester. It was...
  13. BergischerLöwe

    No real motivation to meet/date girls anymore

    I want to leave the city and/or country, but I haven't really planned for it in earnest. I'm supposed to get inheritance money when my late grandfather's estate clears, and with it I want to buy land somewhere else and live there but idk exactly where. I could in theory leave the country but idk...
  14. BergischerLöwe

    No real motivation to meet/date girls anymore

    So this thread is basically two months old now and I'm still no closer to figuring out what I should do. It still appears that in my case there is no good option and I should just learn to cope. I don't see the situation I'm in ever changing. Apparently all I can do as far as trying to meet...
  15. BergischerLöwe

    To vasectomy or not?

    I'm 27 and I want to get a vasectomy, but the main reason I haven't gotten one is because I'm apprehensive about potential after effects of the surgery. I've heard that some guys get horrible chronic pain as a result of the surgery and there's nothing that can be done about that apparently...
  16. BergischerLöwe

    Are women even still open to meeting men the old-fashioned way anymore?

    It's too long a slog to try and stick to without falling off the wagon. Guess I'll have to just keep swiping and pray for a miracle. I'll never feel comfortable approaching in public like that
  17. BergischerLöwe

    Are women even still open to meeting men the old-fashioned way anymore?

    Yeah man doesn't seem like I'd get anywhere with cold approach
  18. BergischerLöwe

    Are women even still open to meeting men the old-fashioned way anymore?

    This is exactly why I've never tried to learn cold approach. It may have worked for some back in 2008 but now it doesn't. It really is true that women nowadays are freaked out when guys approach them in public and there's active psyops to discourage it. People have already tried to cancel me on...
  19. BergischerLöwe

    Are women even still open to meeting men the old-fashioned way anymore?

    Isn't meetup just a bunch of single guys with the same idea? The idea of meeting women thru hobbies may be good in theory, but in practice, hobbies and social groups are bound to just be a sausage fest. As I've said before tho even if I came across a dateable woman in one of those groups I still...
  20. BergischerLöwe

    No real motivation to meet/date girls anymore

    Well for what it's worth it's indeed true that women in their 20s don't listen to that really. Most guys in that age group don't even. 90% of the music I listen to is from between the years 1954 to about 1979. My friends who also play music listen to that kinda stuff but outside them nobody my...
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