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I genuinely am more of a chill type tho, that's how I've been my entire life

Now that I think about it the only time I've really talked to European women is a few times on various apps. When I studied in Austria I was talking to this girl on tinder for a bit and she was into some of the same things as me but she didn't want to meet up with me because I was only there for...

To be chill isn't really a bad thing tho

I did read those books but that was some years ago. I've heard about mystery but a lot of guys make fun of him and most people say his methods are outdated now. He also strikes me as somewhat of a charlatan. There's just something about the way he presents himself that comes across to me as...

Unfortunately that's just the kind of women I attract on apps where I live, and I'm tired of that. It feels like I'm far less attracted to them than they are to me and then I have no motivation to pursue women because I'm fed up about having to mainly resort to those sorts

I see. To me it's just the vibe of the town that's kinda weird, it's really urbanized there so it's not quite as chill as some of the other German cities that I've been to

I've been there before and it's kind of a weird town, idk about the vibe. But then again last time I was there it was only a couple days. My dad went to college in Berlin back in the early 80s, his opinion of that town is a positive one. I'm much more familiar with Köln and München, I was born...

Yep I think I'll have to at some point. Can't expect much of anything to happen but I gotta do it. Was thinking of going back to Germany again anyway. But if I go to Europe with the expressed purpose of meeting women then I'm sure to fail. That kind of thinking puts too much pressure on me. If I...

Yeah that sounds pretty good, takes some of the pressure off. But there's still the problem that I'm not meeting women naturally, so I don't really have any to practice on

I have a tendency to overthink things and get decision paralysis very easily, so in my case this has definitely happened

Yeah honestly I do think central european women would be more what I'm looking for, I just haven't had the opportunity to meet any I could date. People in Czechosolvakia/Hungary seem to have a certain respect for German culture for what it's worth, so maybe the fact that I'm German myself would...

This probably describes most of the women who'd be attracted to me here in the states, and exactly the kind of mid women from dating apps I'm fed up with

I've gotten that suggestion before but honestly I'm not really attracted to Asian women. I'm German myself and am very well versed in European culture and have lived in Europe before, so European women would be more relatable in that sense. Furthermore I refuse to perpetuate the "introverted...

Yeah man it adversely affected me in a number of ways and when it was going on in my life I was too young to understand the ramifications of what was actually happening. When I was like 10 or 11 I thought the sort of treatment I got from my stepfather was normal for parents to do, for example...

I'm aware of that quote from Pook, there was a point where I could recite all of Pook's 15 Rules from memory. I'm not trying to have a bad attitude about the stuff the community writes about, it's just geared towards a different audience than me. Cold approach and the like seems to be geared...

I've read a few books about how to get girls. I believe I read Bang at one point, I've read Models by Marc Manson, and also The Book of Pook. The latter was one that really resonated with me but I struggle to apply its concepts to real life, Bang came across to me as kinda sleazy and didn't seem...

Well with my dad it's a very long story. My parents split up shortly after I started first grade back in 2002, and a bitter custody battle ensued that lasted until 2009. Additionally my mom remarried and my stepfather was an emotionally abusive, alcohol addicted redneck who was constantly angry...

I just never learned how to do that when I was supposed to have

But that's the thing, I've never been able to meet women to date irl. If most people in Europe meet irl and off apps then I'm kinda screwed tbh. I've never pulled a girl that I've first met irl, hasn't ever happened like that in my entire life

I've already had a consultation with a urologist but that was over a year ago