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Play the jock angle up more - hat (backwards), jeans, sweatshirt - don’t waste good clothes at college bars.

The Achilles heel to the abundance theory is the psychological condition known as attachment theory.

Tell em Sonic

I never said don’t make a move. Sexual guys get the women.

You’re not her main priority, unfortunately it sounds like - make sure you’re wrapping it up

Just be careful on one thing: you must pursue. But effective pursuit captures the attention of your audience in an effort to persuade, and persuasiveness is most effective with push-pull dynamics. Those dynamics are a combination of expressing interest while being visibly, convincingly...

You either believe in yourself no matter what the situation, or you don’t. Positive feedback increases your belief, negative experiences when in a confident mindset are opportunities to learn. Options increase from feeling abundant, which leads to detachment from tying outcomes to one’s esteem...

Abundance is a mindset - it’s a continuously reinforcing belief that you can achieve at any point in life - be it at grammar school level or later when you’re a single parent like me and you start realizing that smashing attractive college students is actually a possibility. Abundance is also...

The summer when I broke up with my girlfriend when I was 27, I nailed two hookers that summer. It was kind of a relief. Felt like an adult for one, got her out of my mind a little secondly, just honestly felt though like I was stepping a little into the dark side, and it felt good to be a little...

Well said. This is why push-pull is the single most impotent dynamic in attraction.

I have a problem with rejection too but as hard as it is for deadly good looking men like us to fathom, sometimes she just ain’t into you. I think on a level she definitely had interest but I think you gave her a little too serious of a tone. A little laid back, funny c0cky banter, ie just...

The right move is walk away. The odds of her being mature and composed enough to not put you and the relationship through this are slim, but I would remiss if I didn’t say I’ve dealt with this before and have worked through it. You could try letting her know that social media is not something...

Her baby daddy is a murderer and you’re on the internet asking for advice to go out with her? Bro.

I didn’t read the accompanying context but it’s certainly possible

That’s good to know. You’re dodging a bullet. Possibly literally

Take care is just a sign off - you knucklehead - it wasn’t her saying she was out permanently - she didn’t test you, she actually was vulnerable and forthcoming with you - I don’t know anything about her and I am not going to read that bs CIA dossier you wrote on her which is insane - simply...

That is NOT what I said. I said it’s possible, they’re friends for a reason and share similar values, but maybe she is committed within their relationship. He needs to have more to come at her with than her friends are slvts.

I’m sorry but the dad in me is getting more furious by the moment reading this. I am absolutely insane, I’ll be the first to tell you, but children, all kids, have a soft spot in my heart. What you’re intimating but not saying out loud is that you are concerned that she’s cheating on you. I...

I’m sorry you had to deal with that on a base level - what I realize more so (inherently known at a textbook level for however long but not in practice) - is that, we grow through struggle, we become stronger or we die, and experience and wisdom create better temperament

My mother is absolutely vile. Her mother abandoned her, then they all went running back to mommy years later proclaiming her a living saint ; my mother lives a parallel existence most recently taking the side of my former spouse absolutely wrongly and assuring my removal of her from the...