I am sorry you guys are dealing with this problem. I mean this sincerely, this depth of analysis on your micro social dynamics must be difficult to have to deal with. I would almost eject for a year or more … keep contact on social , and then work a strategy out to come back a different guy...
I agree with the obstacle being the way, in other words, what is clearly a dread fear of yours can be the path to your power. I will tell you right now, power does not run. So all the evasion and your seclusion is a delusion you have built to go hide in and not face the real world. What about...
Unfortunately part of it is good genetics. My testosterone is the top end of the highest range for a mid 20’s male. That said, have gotten away with absolute dietary and physical abuse over the years as a result of it. Keys to staying energetic for me are, in no particular order:
sleep and...
What I think is either shooed from, or implied at least as a negative, is dating single mothers. So at 40, in the last 2 years, never have I once gone out with a single mother.
Dialogue of any consistency landed mostly in the early 30’s, while casual sex typically ran the spectrum of early 20’s...
‘Discipline’ your woman? This kind of thinking will backfire. I tried it. It will absolutely blow up.
I went to therapy yesterday. Some here who have known me for long enough may recall that periodically, my emotional response clouds my logical behavior and produces outcomes that are...
This is going to trace back to the icons of rap if this has legs. How could Biggie, Mase, and everyone he produced and associated with not have known this back in the 90’s. Whenever I see anyone with one of those Biggie spraypaint crown images I cringe. Brooklyn now all you see is that stupid...
America doesn’t want losers; we only let the cream rise to the top over here - America invented Darwinism, and has a fantastic way of separating the wheat from the chaff.
I echo that when nobody is watching, all the women’s posturing in the friend group is out the window. You can imagine that I am Persona Non Grata in my former marital social circle ; my instagram messages from the single moms there tell a different story. The office social circle is the same way...
Escalate from day one. I always find that women are trying to lock me down directly or overtly by talking about relationships right out of the jump. If you’re going to get the exclusivity question in 3-6 weeks you may as well have some fun before you have to deal with that.
I have to admit, actually having read a few posts there….. not terribly awful advice. Basically they’re saying try picking the phone up and not being a text message sending fckboy. I can’t argue with it.
I’m wondering if in the context of a relationship that has gone astray, mostly in the area of disrespect and the relationship has gone amuck, where it was otherwise good in general but things got so out of hand that nobody can point to who did what first, nor should they probably try… I’m...
This website banned me in five days. I started a thread over there called “I sent her packing” and they had a nuclear meltdown.
It was funny, because they really took to my masculinity before I aired out that I threw a boundary down.
I hate to say it but the formula here is really simple, all the guys here know it and we all learned passing it around to each other … orgasm for women happens between the ears before it happens between her legs.
imo, a couple things killed you.
1: she initiated contact with you multiple times...
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