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  1. Divorced w 3

    girl gives small windows to hang but not more

    If it’s been said once it’s been said 10,000x…. interested women make time. The formula is simple… chit chat, name the date in the following way “meet me at location, Thursday at 7pm” and she either says yes or no. It’s that simple. If she says she can’t, give it a week and come back one more...
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    Getting Back Together

    Jerry Seinfeld on what to do when people say something bad about you: “All this hand wringing worry and concern over how are people viewing me — someone said something bad about me, and you get so upset about it — is wasted time and energy. Your only focus should be on getting better at what...
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    How can I figure out what makes me so offputting?

    Busy is good. This is a numbers game and this only helps you. The bartender is never too busy to look you in the eye. They don’t know you need a drink if they’re not looking at you at some point. Stick with what I said. You have every right to lean into the bar, holding conversation with your...
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    How can I figure out what makes me so offputting?

    Post up at a highly trafficked segment of the bar, standing, with a male friend. Have a presence about you and know your surroundings but be content in your space. Befriend the bartender especially if she’s an attractive female but any social proof will do. Use situational openers when...
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    Approach in The Gym?

    Cultivate a fuller life beyond the weight room. Maybe within the social context of the gym see if sports or other activities are happening and get into those. Are there any male friends that you’ve made in that particular realm that you can expand a friendship into more fully? From there...
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    Approach in The Gym?

    Don’t **** where you eat. Work hard in the gym. Do what you’re supposed to do there. Is nothing sacred. When I’m working out it’s an attitude and that attitude plus physique gets the attention especially in the office gym , less the true gym. If you’re doing it right at the gym it will present...
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    Getting Back Together

    The problem with iron rule 7 to me is that I don’t give a fvck what anyone thinks about me, so the dirty laundry thing doesn’t really matter in my thought process. I don’t think it should matter in anyone else’s either. People are frequently wrong, say what they need to further their own...
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    Incel Circlejerk

    this is not entirely true. There is nuance you can learn here on tact and communication that has served me well at least. There is me as a single dad before and having found this website and it’s legitimately made a difference. Almost every time I try and deny the advice of seasoned people here...
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    Getting Back Together

    Is this something you’re dealing with now? If it is, can you discuss a little on what your specific details are? I am dealing with this, and it’s not going well at all. I don’t have much time right now to elaborate.
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    Incel Circlejerk

    If you want to single people out, allow me to use your words to allow you personally to metaphorically describe a key issue which your contemporaries so often lament. As has been expressed, like so many people generally, the issue with this forum is lack of personal accountability. Negative...
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    Has anyone done Sales?

    Nice. Casual and genuine is important but don’t forget that there will come a time when you have to advise your client firmly - that’s the time you’re really making the money they’re paying you for, when you have to stick your neck out and take an uncomfortable position for their greater good.
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    What is the best/most clever way to exchange numbers with a woman at work

    Just like you would do in any other date situation - casual opener, two to three minutes of chit chat, and you say ‘drinks at 4pm on Thursday at xxx?’ Worked for me a month ago
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    Lookmaxing experiment

    Toner balanced the ph of your skin and removes what the soap didn’t get off. It’s as important as soap.
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    America lowers men's self esteem

    The feelings you describe at the end are a normal part of the human experience- they’re also what forge your resolve snd character and help you clarify what is important to you as a person. When you tell me that a member of a relatively free society, in which China could even be considered...
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    America lowers men's self esteem

    Competitive situations and incentives are what fulfill the personal needs of most people and have been proven time and again to advance progress and causes in all societies throughout history. Even the Chinese, pre and post communism would admit this fact. It’s the removal of the competitive...
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    How to deal with men?

    Italian women, American and abroad, are feisty bitches but they’re fbcking hot and I absolutely love them. They’re also extremely family oriented, loyal, submissive and great in bed. Those qualities above are how they weed out beta males. My ex wife was Italian. She’s an a$$hole but she was my...
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    Lookmaxing experiment

    No mention of toner for the face. use it after your face dries then apply the moisturizer or whatever else. Sauna will increase hgh massively Sauna after a heavy weight routine is the best Fasting for multiple reasons Vitamin D and K2
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    If you're in a social circle, and the women there don't give you a hug when they leave, it's OVER

    I don’t specifically know what your dynamics are, I would not ever give up employment over this, ever. If you can change jobs and advance your career definitely do it though. What I did mean, however, is simply just get out of this clique immediately. This is not a good look for you whatsoever...
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