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You know, 'these men' are one particular group that often complain about not getting approached or IOIs or don't take action. I hope you understand what I’m hinting at. But I get what you mean about how being approached or not doesn’t influence relationship dynamics. Thanks for elaborating!

Do you continue to lead the relationship after the initial approach is made? Do interactions sometimes fizzle out? From my understanding of the “like to be approached” perspective, it seems that these men want women to not only initiate the original interaction but also take charge of...

I’d feel strange being approached by women since I’m usually in attack mode in all areas of my life. It would feel odd to just sit back and relax. I assume most men don’t want to be approached, but what they really desire is for the women they’re attracted to to reciprocate their advances.

I doubt her boyfriend minds since he gets to smash it and see her without those pants. Plus, it seems she doesn't wear them all the time. @GoodMan32 How about we stop judging others for what and why they do and wear? It’s really petty. Instead, let’s focus on something more productiv like doing...

(5) Why does some fashion repeat while others fad? | LinkedIn I wear straight jeans and prefer them to slim fit. The point is, that’s what’s in style for the younger generation. Trends like septum piercings and broccoli hair are popular, and for many young people, it’s all about “when in...

This one in particular emphasizes the torso.

I agree that clothing plays a role in gender expression, but femininity can encompass a wide range of styles. Women might choose baggy clothing for various reasons, including comfort, personal taste or current fashion trends, and that doesn’t make them any less feminine.

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I don’t prefer it, but I don’t discriminate. Some people I’ve been with wear them occasionally, like to a concert or to the grocery store instead of sweatpants. They don’t wear them constantly. Fashion is cyclical. They were once in style in the 90s or early 2000’s. I can’t remember which...

Agreed, but your original point was that baggy pants aren't feminine because they don't show curves. In reality, femininity is more about a woman's confidence, personality, and personal style than just the fit of her clothing.

Wearing baggy pants doesn’t mean someone isn’t feminine or isn’t showing their curves. Please see below. That said, it’s clear that OP’s consistent behavior indicates he isn’t actually interacting with these women. He’s just viewing them through a screen on social media or Google.

Just to piggyback onto your point. Some people assume that the most successful guys are constantly getting laid—sometimes daily, sometimes weekly—for years, without considering that there are dry spells or weeks or months when things don’t go as planned.

Thanks man. I’ll keep an eye out for that when I’m back at shopping for gym equipment.

They took over the whole website today. I can’t even take leasure day off lol

That’s their point: to deter men. While some famous people wear outrageous baggy outfits, I personally appreciate it when the average woman wears them. But I mean, I am the kind of guy that love how women dress, behave, carry themselves, etc.

Who? OP should have agreed, disagreed, or ignored the text. Anything but coming off a butthurt. Not saying your option is wrong either, some options are just more manipulative than the others. I don’t know about the “worried” part. The idea is that people often remain stuck in their own...

I agree with everyone here. Constructive criticism here, remember not to give up your power so easily. Sometimes it is best to mask your anger and frustration, and to appear content and agreeable. The best way to teach them a lesson is to reflect their behavior back to them.

You and everyone knows this. In all walks of life, it is essential to appear desirable in the eyes of others.

I set up a home gym during COVID and haven’t looked back. The main benefits of going to a traditional gym seem to be the motivation from others with similar goals and having a spotter for heavy lifts. Basically the social aspect of it and extra curricular activities. However, if you’re...

Just to play devil’s advocate, isn’t this just accelerating the inevitable? I understand the goal is to get them off the phone and meet in person, but I think the likelihood of a successful connection is still low since the woman will eventually discover things she might not like.