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I get that you use ASMR as a coping mechanism as it provides temporary relief. However, relying on external sources for validation might not address the root of the issue. It’s great that that you measure how you cope, but for OP and for yourself, building genuine confidence and social skills...

So, we went from hugs, to types of hugs, and now onto AMOGs... The thing is, I posted links to discussions about not dwelling on the negatives and a hall of fame post about trying too hard with women. This conversation likely won’t change your mind; you’re a 48-year-old man with a fully...

@corrector Are we still arguing about a hug or the types of hugs that exist then? People wouldn't be so upset with OP's attitude if he at least acknowledged that he might have been "too eager," or that "he needs to change his approach to attract women," or that "perhaps he didn't build enough...

Do you have MS teams? Ask her for lunch to congratulate her for the promotion. Take her to like a chain restaurant. Take her in your car. Gauge her interest and if she has a bf/husband. Ask for her number to do something at night or a first date if things go right.

Hi guys, Long-time lurker, first-time poster. I haven’t been a member for long, but I’ve noticed an increase in posts focusing on the negativity of dating and certain lifestyles, as well as claims that self-improvement is impossible for some individuals. I joined because I had an issue with a...

Look man, I understand your points about different hug types, but I still believe the overall consensus leans toward hugs being insignificant in this context. While you and your friends may view certain hugs as meaningful, the discussion suggests that OP’s behavior indicates a reliance on female...

785K low valued men.

Not really. I did a tally, please see below: Hugs Are Important OP and you: Think hugs are significant. Hugs Are Not Important GoodMan32, SW15, myself: Say hugs are insignificant. OP Didn't Get a Hug Because of Him Divorced w 3: said he did not get a hug because he was perceived as creepy...

I understand your point, but as other commenters have mentioned, hugs are insignificant. Would you consider OP a high-value man if he gets triggered by such minor issues? I’d also like to ask OP how much material he’s reading or practicing. On the SoSuave main page, the excerpts I quoted below...

If that triggers you, I can’t imagine how you would handle a relationship or manage stressful, time-sensitive situations as an adult.

I suppose you’re right. I wasn’t sure what to make of it, as it seems to have emerged during the pandemic. It’s similar to how some people may have many female acquaintances but don’t have sex because their needs are met elsewhere. These videos might make others feel antisocial and lead them to...

This is the type of post we really need. Instead of focusing on negativity and excuses, it's crucial to recognize that being slightly better than others can make a significant difference. As your example shows, having a gym physique and a clear identity can sometimes be all it takes.

This is what Italian men, along with those from other cultures under the romantic language umbrella, remind me of how comfortable they are with their sexuality.

Yes, but why did it happen? Was it his intense thirst for connection that made them not want to hug him, or do they just not know him well enough? What if the next interaction leads to a hug? Is he doing anything to improve his chances compared to the competition? Are these girls really a foot...

Always so reactive smh

Thank man. I appreciate it.

What do you mean? What is so offensive about it? It sounds like he is trying to BS me that the women were 10 inches taller than him.

Maybe I took your comment too literally. Would you say if you are extraordinary at one thing, could that get you laid? What if you are marginal better than the population?

So they didn’t hug you because they were 10 inches taller than you?