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    Guide to Approaching

    A lot of the material sold out there about approaching can be condensed into a few short rules. I implore everyone reading this to add their own 2 cents, way too many guys are wasting money out there on guides about "how to approach women" that simply shyt out regurgitated information you could...
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    Im pulling teeth with this girl but she still contacts me

    Women will keep men as satellites by feeding them attention or making them think they have a "chance" with them. They love the attention, they love increasing their sexual market value, and they love feeling "wanted." I think if you've tried escalating and she's refused to reciprocate, you...
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    How to expand your social circle?

    Activities / events / clubs. books clubs, cultural events, competitive activities, etc.
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    Short guys and approaching

    On the brighter side, you might have a Napoleonic Complex.
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    Add your Social Acumen Tips

    Agreed, but when guys first unplug themselves from betadom, it is almost inevitable that they will be overly conscious of their actions. The ultimate goal of course is to fully internalize being an alpha, in which case it just comes naturally to you and you never have to think about it...
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    Add your Social Acumen Tips

    A devil-may-care attitude and mediocre game will get you far in a relationship and game; but the upper echelons of seductive artistry are reserved exclusively for men with social acumen of fanatical proportions. Marginalizing social calamities, leveraging awkward moments, or maximizing your...
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    The Sosuave Phenomenon that NO ONE seems to notice

    It's rarely "knowing" what to do that's a problem, it's almost ALWAYS executing. In fact, most guys will "know" what to do before they even come to this forum. They only post because they need inspiration to actually DO IT. Taking the path with the least amount of resistance is human nature...
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    Goofy behavior

    You can be funny in a dominant frame OR in a submissive frame. submissive = funny to gain attention, look for approval, qualify yourself, entertain others for social proof dominant = funny because you like laughing, negging, ****y/funny, etc You have to be really good at judging...
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    10 Things you need to UNLEARN to be good with women

    I didn't mean that relationships aren't / shouldn't be based on friendship. Rather that it has been perpetuated so much that relationships are based on friendships that guys will end up trying to act like a girl-friend, (be an emotional tampon, engage in gossip with her) in order to be a boyfriend.
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    Why do I run out of stuff to say?

    Conversation is a skill, not an ability. Practice talking to people, not just girls you are trying to game. Don't be afraid to embrace an awkward silence. When I talk to girls I maintain an indiscreet aloofness, it just her job to break silences. If you think to hard about a conversation...
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    10 Things you need to UNLEARN to be good with women

    1) Relationships are based on friendship: Sadly this has been misinterpreted to mean “Don’t be her boyfriend, be her girlfriend.” Despite what the sister-hood of traveling betas will tell you, relationships are based on the need for our race to propagate themselves via reproduction and...
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    LMR Sh1t test

    wow this is genius. If it's a confrontational **** test and she's smiling or something, then you could do the "Hell Yes" thing and mention your de facto harm. If you get the vulnerability vibe from her, then I would dodge it in funny ways without amplifying too much like Holy G suggested...
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    Ljbfb

    I just got LJBFB'ed HB8 told me "Let's just be Fuk Buddies" Most enlightening experience of my entire life. merry x-mas
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    Any diffence gaming a girl on the rebound?

    I remember an interesting metaphor from somewhere on this forum that described rebound game perfectly. An animal on the hunt doesn't just sit in the middle of the jungle with it's teeth wide open. It stalks it's prey until it gets close enough to reveal itself - at which point it's too late for...
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    how to respond to her test?

    agreed w/ the IL isn't high enough. Don't know if I would set-up dates for 10 days later, gives too much time for interest level to drop especially if you're texting her with smileys in between. It's a numbers game, cut your losses and move on. If you over-game, you'll lose too much...
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    Should you ever tell a girl that you like her?

    No. You SHOW a girl that you like her through your sexual advances and Game, you never tell her directly. Although seemingly a trivial difference in semantics, the way you go about this makes a huge difference in a girls perception of you. If you tell a girl you like her, the challenge for...
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    This is as real as sex talk gets with an attractive female.

    Quote from "The Art of War" that I think applies perfectly to the subject of fighting in relationships or handling shyt tests: "To win one hundred victories in one hundred battles is not the acme of skill. To subdue the enemy without fighting is the acme of skill."
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    How did I f**k up so bad? LMAO

    I second that. You have to keep women in an indefinite limbo. If they think you like them too much, the challenge, sexual tension, and social anxiety evaporate instantly. If they feel too rejected, then they might search elsewhere to feel qualified or cultivate a resentment against you...
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    Noticed something about Oneitis

    Following a break-up a lot of guys start claiming “she was my soul mate,” “I loved her more than anything,” “We were supposed to get married,” yada yada yada, i e; that they were upset because of a cosmic sense of love and belonging that they had lost. But in most cases, I've come to realize...
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