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just asked her. "shisha/hookah?" i said. no reply yet. i feel good. i can deal with ppl ignoring me, i'm not so good doing it the other way around! ps.she just replied "i have to go somewhere...check some place so will let u know." gonna reply with "ok cool"

afc planet today. feels like i still may have a chance. and im just bored...if anything maybe we can be friends after all. i dont know....fvck im all over the place

Right, need a quick reply here. She called, answered, talked, told her i would whatsapp her, i did, then the whatsapp convo went stale. i want to ask her out tonight. what are my chances? cliffs belows cliff: 6 month, break up 3 months ago, broke nc a week ago because i was forced to, found out...

thanks mauser. i think finding out what i did really put things in perspective. this girl is a time bomb walking. glad she dumped me and found a husband who can deal with this type of thing. i will certainly let things run their course. i pray she leaves the country. no more uncomfortable...

awesome post

@nooblgy and @Mr. Kalikoat thanks for your replies. u r right a return to NC is needed but actually its not gonna be NC anymore. its moving on and doing things to move on. i ambso relieved she is leaving the country and hope she does so soonest. saw her at the staircase and work today. said...

Thank you Colette. A females perspective on this helps. deep down i know she knows she is rushing into this. i feel sad for her actually. hope you read the whole story above. honestly i have found peace today because i spoke on truth on the airplane and i know my value as a person. i am not...

Thanks conpleks. For the record guys I don't at all regret the following; 1) Most of all I no regrets about breaking NC i know now that she will leave the country soon and i can focus on my work. it was hard to so when i didnt know if she was around or not. 2) I know she settled for less, she...

damn i guess you are all right. just thought i had a golden opportunity here. for the record i did not come off afc when i asked her to hang out, just said it was nice talking to u, we should talk more. coulda woulda shoulda but what happened did. ball is out of my court now, and honestly i...

yea i am rationalizing but this is a golden opportunity that i have now to hurt her more than she did me. bro she hurt me bad, and then goes off and gets married? fvck nc and fvck courtesy. fck moving on because most of us will never do so if u went through what i did. i have been give a golden...

bro now i am. this morning i woke up happy. first time since NC. read between the lines, yea i could've stayed nc but that bomb scare reminded me that i do not want to be remembered as the ahole who never replied to a "how are u?" text and then died. try and understand my mindset on this brah.

ps. wow at my luck (good and bad). pss. sorry about grammar and spelling mistakes. big fingers, touch screen and jitterness.

Bomb Scare, SoSauve and an Airplane. A story you must read. DAY 1 after 40 days of NC 40 days. But back to day 1 because it was out of my control. full story in a thread on main forum titled "Bomb Scare, SoSauve and an Airplane. A story you must read"

To all, Airplane story: I was just in Kenya this past week for a meeting. My x who I implemented NC on 40 days ago (she broke with me)... Well luck has it that last night she got a booking on the same flight and seat next to me on the return back to Djibouti. She saw me and asked the guy...

Day 38 Right I need some advice and feedback; Left the country to go on a trip, when landing there was insane turbulance. horrible really. and throughout i kept thinking, if i died now what would have been the point of doing all this challenge and self-improvement? I clearly still love this...

Day 38 Right I need some advice and feedback; Left the country to go on a trip, when landing there was insane turbulance. horrible really. and throughout i kept thinking, if i died now what would have been the point of doing all this challenge and self-improvement? I clearly still love this...

I am doing/did the same thing you are bro. It sucks at first but trust me man, the confidence and person you become after this will be unstoppable. Goodluck!

That was the easy part. Now stick to it! Gonna suck but it will mold you proper

^^no need for a farewell speech. Just do it. Good luck

http://www.bbc.com/capital/story/20140516-are-office-romances-ever-ok Fully agree except they say or rather, imply, that dating someone in a different department may be ok. I dated someone in a different department and that doesn't seem like a good idea either. Avoid office romances I say and...