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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    narcissist! thanks for the post. u said some things however that threw me off a bit and has me reconsidering this whole NC thing maan i thought the whole point of NC was to get OVER her?
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    "I can't wait!!" beatjunkie's journal

    So I'm on day 9 of No Contact. My thoughts are; 1) this is for me. i have to forgive, accept and move on 2) it's hard not replying to her "how are u" text 9 days ago but replying now would make things worse 3) not been eating the last few days but today is a bit different. planning to eat as...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    thank you all for your replies. it appears there is a way to forgive without contacting her; forgive urself and move on. Day 9
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Question: been reading and trying out some meditation techniques and inspirational quotes and all that. i keep bumping into ideas like "stop being bitter" or "forgiveness" as imperative for any closure or self advancement. **** im half way thru a meditation when i hear "forgive" amd bam...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    goodmorn from this side of the world. start of day 8. yesterday was by far the worst. at the office and feeling sick this morn. i must keep pushing hard tho. Cheeks and everyone else you guys are my inspiration! keep going and good luck!
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    goodmorn from this side of the world. start of day 8. yesterday was by far the worst. at the office and feeling sick this morn. i must keep pushing hard tho. Cheeks and everyone else you guys are my inspiration! keep going and good luck!
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    "I can't wait!!" beatjunkie's journal

    long story short. 26 year old male. trilingual and lived in 11 countries due to my pops occupation. despite this ace card i've been major afc since 2009 till about 8 days ago. mistreated and disregarded over and over by exs who made promises they couldn't keep. on antidepressants since 2009 but...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    http://www.artofmanliness.com/2011/10/09/this-too-shall-pass/ this is a fantastic article for all those going through the pain. read it. the website is also great and contains loads of good articles and practical advice. start of day 7. woke up early and felt like crap..found this article and...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    imo and shoes i would've tortured myself thinking i should do it...its easter after all. i think you did the right thing :cool:
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    no you're fine. it's called etiquette. i wouldnt sweat it as long as u don't send any follow-up texts. and you're feeling positive man, so keep it up!
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