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The trick up my sleeve; I have a new job in a new country with a new organization. I have accepted and signed. But how to I stop myself from trying to get closure. I feel like I should call and have her not respond just so that I have my conscience clear "that I tried one last time" thoughts?

Hello All, Back on here again. Same girl i've been posting about last 3 years. on and off. Breakup happened this time after big fall out at work and involved family (we work together). even CEO got involved and everything. eventually I apologized to her and she did too. Then she wanted to go on...

she actually had another lunch date with a female co-worker...i asked if she wanted to catch up over lunch. she said yes...but then called and said the co-worker is under stress and wants to talk to her about something. she proposed the rescheduling. i agreed.

so back on day 1 again. was feeling a bit down in the office because of family issues (mom+dad fighting). she called, i answered, she picked up on my sadness. told her what happened. i met her in staircase, we talked...she said plz call me. i did an hour later. we scheduled lunch for...

I have been on this board for over a year now. During that time, I went from AFC to half-alpha to AFC to half-alpha. One thing that I noticed throughout is that many of the principles advocated or preached tend to be awfully similar to Stoic Philosophy. So anyone that wants to do any further...

Update: Moved back to get a visa to go to Japan and Thailand. We work together so we see each other. First time (before yesterday) she saw me, was surprised, kept convo to basics. She stopped by my office later to say hi again but thankfully another co-worker was there so convo ended quick...

Well well well. A little over a year later and I back in this journal....for the same reason as before and with the same chick. Reading all my posts made me sick, I got over her. I was better. Then I took her back in September 2014...broke up 2 weeks ago because I cheated on her....technically...

Broke NC this past thursday...actually before that. she called me everyday to "see how I am doing..." this past thursday I had a bit of an incident, didn't handle it well then decided to call and basically said "I don't want my life to be about relationships only. I am ok and will be ok"...

Update: last week thursday had an incidence where I had to deal with both of them in a span of an hour. kind of freaked out. when i got home I decided to call them both and let them know..."my life is not about relationships and i don't want it to be so, I am happy and will continue being happy"...

Ps. Story posted on new thread titled The Dilemma of Two Chicks

Back on this thread for the second time over the same chick almost a year later. Except this time it's two chicks and not one that I am NCing. Guess thats a good indicator of somewhat improved pick-up game. Let's do this!!! DAY 1

^ i hear you. And both had to take PlanB as I am paranoid about kids even with condoms. Going ghost may be easy but i live in a REALLLY small country and both were the two hottest chicks. No exaggeration or boasting here. Would like to keep one. Deleted both numbers....but i memorized Girl A's...

I am typing this in an airport lounge on a crappy phone so excuse any grammar/spelling mistakes. Joined SS about a year ago because i was torpedoed by a chick (Girl A) who left me and got engaged to someone else around June 2014. Went on vacay and came back in September and get a call from her...

^ this

Thank you. Now how do I get rid of thoughts like "try one more time to get her back before her wedding date?" or "this makes me feel like a monster knowing i could have tried harder during the relationship." and finally "my past ex ruined things with my current ex; if only i didnt...

i want to believe in this post so bad. thing is i was closed and didnt open up at first. even broke up with her for a hours a few time. all because i felt i was getting more and more attached and did not want to go through a horrible break up with someone i loved again. at the end the irony is...

^^ @j4m1e yea but when it happens over and over and over and leaves u fvcking depressed. there is only so much u can take. i don't even know what the point is anymore...girls or friends its all fake. u open up to someone and she hurts u bad. friends leave too. this is all bs. i am about to be...

venting i miss u. i wake up and i think about u. i see things in my day and i think about u. i'm alone and wish u were here. i miss our friendship more than anything. i even tried to be ur friend. u ran off and met someobe else. that hurts me to my soul. i trusted u...u told me u believe in me...

Not feeling great Well, thought I would vent a little here. Seeing that I have no one else to talk to within 200 miles, this will have to do. I'm feeling down today, like crap actually. In this office as I type this and somewhere down stairs sits my ex with that new engagement ring on her hand...