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As a STEM student, I think there probably was some limited potential to meet chicks in the Gen Ed classes like say English, but I didn’t realize it at the time.

I had one fat chick talk to me before class a few times. And my lab partner was an older married lady. I never talked with any women there beyond school-related stuff. I just had no clue where to even begin. I had a 50 yo professor lady tell me I was better looking than this other Mike...

This is all spot on. My married guy friend complains about very infrequent sex. That’s technically a “first world problem” to a single, extended dry spell guy, ie incel. When I mentioned missing intimacy/affection from a chick more than the sex itself, he looked at me like I have three...

I think it’s the lowest of the hierarchy.

Agree. It’s really tough for a guy to leap from “awkward/creepy” directly to “sexy/smooth.” An intermediate step of having women comfortable around him but not necessarily attracted (ie friendship) isn’t a bad idea. If the awkward guy goes too hardcore on RP and tries to pull the “zero...

In all fairness, that appears to be (some variant of?) Hustle, a fun social dance. It isn’t sexual.

Typically, she has to pick you. I don’t think you can simply “volunteer” for FZ and be selected. I have one female friend from work. She just invited me out randomly once, and it continued. We go out for after work food maybe once a month.

And it also was meant to appeal to women in the party/nightlife scene. Women like that are comfortable wearing skimpy clothes or being around other women in skimpy clothes.

It’s much easier said than done. I’m not the frame master. Far from it lol. Just sharing the old definition(s). Anyway, you can selectively ignore people or freeze them out. You don’t have to respond or fully respond to everything. One of my wings years ago would just say “I don’t...

It’s an old school PUA term that probably morphed into something slightly different to fit the more modern RP context. I’ll focus on the older version here because I’m not a modern RP-er. In the old school context, it was about being “less reactive” than the people you were interacting with...

Male loneliness is a big problem. I can’t find the meme, but there was one with a chick at a bar complaining that some guy hadn’t texted back yet. Then there is some lonely-cel guy drinking alone at another bar and thinking something to the effect of “I haven’t spoken with another person in...

Nowhere near 99 percent of people have carefree debauchery in their 20s. I would say even 30 percent is generous. Typically, but not always, it would involve fairly well off parents sending their kids to well known schools and bankrolling their partying.

^This. Or, a at minimum, maybe start to get comfortable with the nightlife scene. Have one drink and make small talk with a cute bartender chick (as practice) if she isn’t too busy. Then turn your head and see if you can chat with some other chick seated near you or standing there trying to...

Nothing wrong with a slump buster, but usually “4” is the limit.

It’s tough because many of these guys will never know the exact causes or dominant cause of their struggles with women. It’s all speculation sadly. You can only fix certain things that you think might help and try to stack the odds more in your favor. Notwithstanding, the list above is...

The Manosphere is not one entity. It’s the splintered remains or spin-offs of the former seduction community.

Back the OP, I agree completely. In this particular example, John is a minimalist. He could sort of get away with that when he was younger, but he can’t as an older guy.

There’s nothing wrong with it per se. But relocating to another country is probably a too drastic a measure for most Homesick-just-thinking-about-it-cels.

He’s got very good hair. Even granny won’t marry a balding guy,

Exactly. You read my mind. I’ve been thinking about a fourth category: body/muscles. I still support good fashion (as a bonus/wildcard), but don’t go crazy with it. I’ve been complimented on suits, shirts, and also jeans. Just never a shoe compliment. But everybody’s mileage may vary.