Underrated Reasons You Might Be Struggling to Attract Women

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Do you make these common dating mistakes? I’m going to talk about simple, enjoyable changes you can make. They’ll boost your confidence and increase your chances at finding love.


Personal hygiene
Grooming
Unhealthy habits
You’re not interesting
You overthink the outcome
You don’t see women as human beings
You don’t know many women
You become friends for the wrong reason
You don’t make an effort with dates
You’re involved in toxic online communities
You’re relying too much on dating apps/websites
You don’t show women respect


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Thoughts?
 

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Article:

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Do you make these common dating mistakes? I’m going to talk about simple, enjoyable changes you can make. They’ll boost your confidence and increase your chances at finding love.


Personal hygiene
Grooming
Unhealthy habits
You’re not interesting
You overthink the outcome
You don’t see women as human beings
You don’t know many women
You become friends for the wrong reason
You don’t make an effort with dates
You’re involved in toxic online communities
You’re relying too much on dating apps/websites
You don’t show women respect


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Thoughts?
I think adding some examples would help this resonate.
 

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Sharon Alger
"I’m an Aussie mother, carer, dog-lover and feminist. I write about feminism, humor, opinion pieces, and whatever else I feel like."


Now....... you shouldnt listen to a womans dating advice, you should THE HELL NOT listen to a feminists dating advice.


I rest my case
 

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How could any of these be underrated when most of these are things talked about on this forum all the time?

Catchy, clickbait type headline with properly rated things.
 

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Do you make these common dating mistakes? I’m going to talk about simple, enjoyable changes you can make. They’ll boost your confidence and increase your chances at finding love.


Personal hygiene
Grooming
Unhealthy habits
You’re not interesting
You overthink the outcome
You don’t see women as human beings
You don’t know many women
You become friends for the wrong reason
You don’t make an effort with dates
You’re involved in toxic online communities
You’re relying too much on dating apps/websites
You don’t show women respect


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Thoughts?
I think this is a great list. There are probably many more, but this covers a lot of shyte we can talk about.

If the AFC makes sure he covers this list ot probably will increase his success with women. At very least he'll become a beter person.

Even the more experienced DJ,s can wirk with this.
 

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Men struggle because they dont experiment enough to find out what works best for them.
 

BillyPilgrim

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Sharon Alger
"I’m an Aussie mother, carer, dog-lover and feminist. I write about feminism, humor, opinion pieces, and whatever else I feel like."


Now....... you shouldnt listen to a womans dating advice, you should THE HELL NOT listen to a feminists dating advice.


I rest my case
Not just an Australian feminist, but Karen Alger is an Irish Nationalist as well.

 

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I think this is a great list. There are probably many more, but this covers a lot of shyte we can talk about.

If the AFC makes sure he covers this list ot probably will increase his success with women. At very least he'll become a beter person.

Even the more experienced DJ,s can wirk with this.
With this particular woman though, I think it's more "you're not answering my 20,000 questions and allowing me to judge you, while I violate the said list items because of oppression somewhere on the other side of the world."
 

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It’s tough because many of these guys will never know the exact causes or dominant cause of their struggles with women.

It’s all speculation sadly. You can only fix certain things that you think might help and try to stack the odds more in your favor.

Notwithstanding, the list above is reasonable and probably wouldn’t hurt.
 
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