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Dad: “He’s just shy. He’ll grow out of it.” Mom: “Yeah he’s only 46. Someday the right girl will find him. I mean you and I didn’t meet until I was almost 19.”

This. I think poor parenting is the biggest source of celdom.

Likely hooker. Red flag. Plus bartenders have a finely tuned radar for hookers and other sketchy customers. If the bartender was about to kick her out, that’s enough of a red flag alone. You did the right thing.

Thick, well styled hair is a critical looksmax piece that I would put at #1. Then posture. Then build/fitness. And clothing style last. Tall thick hair and good posture will maximize the appearance of your natural height. I don’t know how to actually height-max.

20% is my standard. They’d have to mess up REALLY badly to not get that from me. If it was an honest mistake on their part or a screw up/delay in the kitchen (beyond their control), I still give the standard tip.

Hair first and height close second.

I’m not so sure that blue collar is a big problem. Anecdotally, I know far more white-collar-cels.

I would say generally yes. The nice guy tries to develop an emotional connection first in lieu of a sexual connection. And we know well how that turns out. The bad boy goes for the sexual connection first. Then after a few bangs, she might start to believe there is also an emotional...

I know what you mean. I never hooked up with an ex either. But I know secondhand from my female friends how common it is.

They’ll be textbook “single” but not actively “looking.” She’ll still be banging her ex or be in a situationship with Chad.

This really hits home. I feel like I run a 24 hr advice line for family, friends and coworkers lol. But yeah, I agree.

3 months max.

Probably just another way to dance around the looks issue. Women generally don’t use the term “game.” So they say “communications skills.”

It isn’t always the case that you “Ignore what she says and go by what she does.” There are times when women do tell you the truth verbally. She’s being honest with you. It was only a fling. Don’t catch feelings. If you already have, you have to walk away. She actually gave you good...

Fair question. I’m not looking to have kids. The ship kinda sailed on that one. I’m 47 and the youngest I dated in the last 5 years has been 44. I’m definitely open to younger but not sure I can pull that off with the upper 30s chicks. Notwithstanding, I agree with you in principle about...

She’s just not attracted to you. She liked you as a person but didn’t want to F you. That’s friendzone in a nutshell. She’s just the wrong girl for you despite what “seemed” like a good connection to you on the surface. You probably are reviewing the entire six months multiple times in...

Unfortunately no. See paragraph #1. She fired you as a potential boyfriend. You can’t reapply for the job now. All that aside, I am sorry to hear this. I’ve been there a few times. It’s no fun.

I’m not sure where I could meet women who are “age appropriate” at this point. The youngest I could realistically approach at this point is like 38-39 (and even that is quite a stretch). 42 to 50 is more appropriate. Possibly an upscale mature restaurant bar? Even then, I probably wouldn’t...

I don’t disagree with anything above. But one reason black pillers try to pin their dating/attraction issues on looks is because it’s almost impossible to know for sure what the exact problem is. Women generally won’t tell the guy, not even a close female friend. So he picks his most...

I’m still waiting for my car insurance rates to go down when I turn 25. I’m 47 now.