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    Finally joined OLD for the first time ever at 30

    Technically I’m still 29, but I turn 30 in 4 months so close enough. But yeah, I finally signed up for OLD and its the first time I’ve ever done it. So I was in Vegas for all of last week and I thought that would be the perfect environment to give it a try. I already had a Tinder account that I...
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    63% of young American men are single while most women in the same age group are in relationships

    I'll have to check out that thread. As it is right now, it seems like there aren't that many structured singles events and maybe that's because their success rate isn't that high, so people just walk away from them frustrated because they just ended up being a big waste of time? Some of those...
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    63% of young American men are single while most women in the same age group are in relationships

    I actually lost my virginity to one of her friends, this happened the year before I met the girl I just mentioned in that comment and I had no idea that they knew each other. I think that's also something that held me back because things didn't go past that first date and the following hookup...
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    63% of young American men are single while most women in the same age group are in relationships

    I agree, I've long believed that a lack of sex and romance can damage a man's mental health. I feel like mine is ok for the most part, but I do feel like my lack of a love life has had some negative effects on my mental health. Most notably, it has made me prone to depression and I've had...
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    63% of young American men are single while most women in the same age group are in relationships

    This section of the thread really stood out to me. As I am right now, I have a scarcity mindset that I'm trying to get rid of and that's why I'm having difficulty moving on from a woman that I met 6 years ago back in 2017. Since its been that long, I know that I need to call it quits and move...
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    63% of young American men are single while most women in the same age group are in relationships

    I know exactly what you mean about the escort pics. There's one who works out of one of the legal brothels in Nevada and one of her specialties is helping inexperienced men. She'll even go on a practice date with you as part of your experience with her since there's a bar and restaurant onsite...
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    63% of young American men are single while most women in the same age group are in relationships

    Yep, I've heard it called virtual cuckoldry in NoFap communities and that's actually pretty true since you are watching another man having sex with a woman you're attracted to. I've actually spent money on private cam shows where its just me and the couple and afterwards I felt like sh*t...
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    63% of young American men are single while most women in the same age group are in relationships

    That statement from the Simpsons is very true. It definitely does make singledom more tolerable because most of us here know that it would be a whole lot worse if we had to be perpetually single without being able to see naked women at all and never get off. Porn is also not like what it used...
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    63% of young American men are single while most women in the same age group are in relationships

    I don’t think that porn makes men not want a relationship, but it can have a negative effect a man’s sex drive and his motivation to find real women to have sex with, I know that from experience. When you’re getting off to porn multiple times a day every day, your sex drive gets pretty low and...
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    63% of young American men are single while most women in the same age group are in relationships

    Yep, there are men today that would have little to no issues with finding a woman to date back in the 70’s, 80’s, and 90’s but are struggling big time in today’s dating world. OLD and social media has just inflated women’s standards so high because they have a constant stream of validation from...
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    63% of young American men are single while most women in the same age group are in relationships

    It wasn’t just Brietbart who reported on this, several other media outlets did as well. Brietbart was just the first one I heard about this from. What sponsors of theirs are owners of porn sites and what sites do they own? This is the first I’m hearing about porn site owners being involved with...
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    63% of young American men are single while most women in the same age group are in relationships

    I think you’re right when you say that this is a step towards the collapse of western society. The US is already so divided these days that it wouldn’t surprise me at all if we see a growing division between men and women in the coming years. The social commentary in what you said reminds me a...
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    63% of young American men are single while most women in the same age group are in relationships

    Yeah I can see that now. But I did not expect the number to be that high, that’s just 2 points away from a supermajority, which is 65%. It shows that there’s a supply inequality when it comes to young singles since this report showed that only 34% of young women are single and looking for a...
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    girl with a lot more sexual experience than me?

    You sound a lot like me, I’m 29 going on 30 and have very little sexual experience. I also struggle with ED issues and I think mine are related to my porn use just like yours. It just seems like it’s more than coincidental when so many men these days who watch a lot of porn and masturbate...
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    63% of young American men are single while most women in the same age group are in relationships

    Came across this article from Brietbart today (there isn’t much political elements in the article and I’m not trying to start a discussion on politics) that reported 63% of men aged 18-29 in the US are single, while most women in that age group are in a relationship with only about 34% of them...
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    Anyone else spending valentines day alone?

    At least he lost the weight though, he has weight loss goals and he’s made a lot of progress towards them. Like I said, I don’t see any harm in doing the free 1 hour session just to see if working with him would be helpful before deciding wether or not to spend money to hire him on and have...
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    Under What Circumstances Should a Guy Give Up Entirely?

    What you advised is advice as old as time lol, bang some low tier women to gain experience has probably been told to all inexperienced guys at least once.
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    Anyone else spending valentines day alone?

    I don’t know that I would, but like you said if that scenario of having to be my parents’ caretaker played out while I was still inexperienced, then I’m really screwed and escorts are probably my only option. OnlyFans is no different than looking at porn, which I’ve been doing for years. At...
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    Anyone else spending valentines day alone?

    Me and my friend always cared because every single Valentine’s Day of our lives was spent alone, but he moved to a different state and he’s married now.
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    Anyone else spending valentines day alone?

    Those pics are actually old, he has since lost a lot of that weight. These are current pics of him from his Facebook page, which is viewable to the public.
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