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Yeah maybe I’m just bitter about never experiencing young love as well. Not to mention that I’ve had the concern that I’m gonna be forced to only date older women now because I’m entering my 30’s. Now I’m not saying I want to date 18-19 year olds, but I would still like to date a woman in her...

I don’t know, I’ve heard of Chad level men getting rejected for still living at home. My biggest fear is that coming up and its not like you can hide it. Like I said, I am willing to go out and work for the money to get a decent hotel room so that I wouldn’t be forced to bring her to my parents...

Because of my life situation? That’s why those 2 options would be my only choices?

Would you still try if you were inexperienced at almost 30, had no friends, and still lived at home? Serious question.

Not if I'm going to the casino lol, unless I win money there.

That's a very accurate description for OF, more than half of the reason why I kept buying subscriptions is just to talk to those women in the DM's because I have no women to talk with in my own personal life. But I knew that it was all fake and that none of them cared what I had to say, its no...

I'm working on that, focused on losing weight right now and then I'm gonna focus on muscle building. I was 218 lbs when I started and my goal is 180-190

I think its more that I already had a porn addiction before I ever bought that first one and buying OF subscriptions only made it worse because then I became addicted to OF.

I have zero savings right now, you'd think that I would have a lot from living at home all my life, but I have zero.

Well this year makes it official for me: I have been alone for every single valentines day of my teens and 20's. When me and my lifelong friend still lived in the same state, we would usually go out and get drunk since he was always alone for valentines day too and we both hated that day so...

No, but I've considered trying to save up money to see one.

I have never been on OLD, not even for a day. I know that the inexperience thing can only be solved by venturing out into the dating world, but I've felt like living at home and not having friends is gonna hold me back on there as well because that will come up and pretty early on. It would be...

Well technically I do have another outlet, which are escorts. But they're really expensive.

Yeah but again, its the issue of not having any experience at 30 being a huge catch-22 and the fact that so many women are probably gonna look down on me for still living at home with my parents and not having any friends.

No, I've still never used OLD. But I do know that it is a huge numbers game as well I do feel like the overwhelming majority of them would find my inexperience off putting. I really have believed for awhile now that if I went out with 50 different women from OLD, all 50 would probably reject...

Well chad/chadlite posters never had issues with their confidence and probably got girlfriends in their teens. I probably wouldn't have become so heavily involved with porn if I had a gf back then, I dove deep into the world of online porn since that was my only sexual outlet back then and...

The second one is a completely accurate description of me, that's exactly how I am. And at times I feel like its a problem that cannot be solved.

Spot on, I've always felt like you can be considered a failure with women by inaction after you get past a certain age and that's what I now consider myself.

Well I don't really have any strategy at all, and it would be accurate to say what actually happened with me is that I gave up on dating and women without even trying. I've also long held the belief that after a certain age, a man can be considered a failure by inaction when it comes to women...

I've actually never used OLD. I became too scared off from it after reading horror stories about it here on SS and other sites as well.