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I’m not even blackpilled. Who do you think I am, Marshall Mathers the 4th? Now he’s the definition of being blackpilled. You’re also acting like I would only settle for 9’s and 10’s which isn’t true at all. I was just saying that I held the fear of being universally rejected by all women at all...

I look at porn after they go to bed and their room is upstairs from mine, so i have the privacy to look at it after they're asleep. Yeah I would feel totally screwed in that situation and would probably just have to resign myself to only paying for escorts for the rest of my life. Catholic...

I don't think this guy in particular is a scam artist, he's very transparent with all of his credentials and he isn't someone who only works with AFC's like most of the PUA's do. He actually works with women and couples in addition to working with single men. I will probably still continue to...

Yeah I know those can happen as well, it might actually be a mixture of both for me. Years of nothing but porn and masturbation has definitely taken its toll on me and I do feel like I've become psychologically conditioned to only be aroused by and achieve an erection from that. But I also had...

That's actually a good point. For the longest time, I've thought that I need to have X Y and Z (my own place, a big social circle, and a career) in order to even be eligible to date a woman. But from what you're telling me, that doesn't have to be the case because if there's enough chemistry...

Not a bad idea honestly, if I had an extra couple hundred to blow tonight I probably would.

If I can’t muster up the courage to attend that event at Dave & Buster’s tonight, I’m holding myself accountable by forcing myself to get on one OLD site as a start. I agree, I’ve been wanting to quit porn for so long and it’s always been a struggle for me to stop.

I think you’re the one I mentioned to awhile back that I have PIED. Maybe I can work on my physique as I’m waiting for the noporn recovery to cure my PIED. I also need to work on my mindset that its too late to take action because my inexperience is gonna get me rejected every time. That’s...

Wow! That’s gotta be some of the best advice I’ve gotten on here hands down! I wish SS allowed users to give some type of award for really helpful advice. What you wrote is very impressive. I saw that you asked why I still live at home, its because in my area the cost of living is extremely high...

Like I said in another thread, I’m willing to work with this coach who is not a PUA and specializes in helping adult aged men who have no dating experience. If I feel that I really do need professional therapy, I would probably use Talkspace and see if it helps since they have licensed...

Because me and him have been through that before

Just wanted to update the tread with this: As I was driving earlier, an ad came on from a local radio station and this radio station is hosting a singles mixer at a Dave & Buster’s location in my area tonight. This particular Dave & Buster’s location is surrounded by hotels and motels in every...

I have to disagree about the coach thing, I think that this guy in particular could help me. I also do understand that the coaching would have to be combined with putting myself out there, otherwise its completely useless and a waste of money. The fear of being guaranteed nothing but rejection...

That’s great man, hopefully the weight will be lost just as easily for me. I’m avoiding carbs and sugar at all costs and it seems to be working so far. I’m gonna start with muscle exercises after I burn some more fat.

When I said that, I meant that I don’t have a regular 9-5 job right now. I have a family member who owns his own business and I work with him a couple of days at a time when he needs an extra hand and he pays me $100 a day. I also do DoorDash and make pretty good money on there too, I am going...

That's just it, every year lately just seems like a copy of the year before it with just slightly different events transpiring. I might start working with this coach I found online who actually specializes in helping adult men with no dating/relationship experience get out there and turn it around.

That’s true, you wouldn’t have any stories to share if you gave up. I just can’t bring myself to go on OLD or anything else because I don’t want to find someone that I start to like and then have my current life situation ruin all of it. If I got rejected for other reasons than the 3 I’ve been...

So what would you recommend then when the subject of my living situation and social life would come up then? I’ve already been told when it comes to the inexperience to not mention anything about it and just try to change the subject without revealing much if it comes up. But if anything, the...

I wish I had that mindset and if I was younger maybe I still would, its just that this Vday in particular is hard for me because its the last one of my 20’s and confirms that I was alone for every Vday in my life so far. Maybe next year will be different, but who knows.

Yeah but I never got to do that, and its why I feel the way I do and why I spend Vday at the casino getting drunk.