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No you definitely wouldn’t learn anything about relationship game from a place like that, but maybe I should go just so I can say that I did.

Oh I will definitely report back here if I go. Yeah it will take some courage for sure to go somewhere like that and have to be nude in front of a bunch of strangers and I’m sure there’s plenty of crazy things that happen there. This place even has a pool and jacuzzi for skinny dipping. So you...

That sucks, but it does sound like you would go to something like that if you had the opportunity though.

Yeah I know, it was pretty straightforward when I lost my virginity at 21. What I meant was more along the lines of women asking you about your past relationships/dating history, but I know that going to a club like that doesn’t really solve that issue.

No they’re not high at all, it was more about getting more comfortable with sexuality and being naked in front of women instead of banking on an outcome that I want. Like I said earlier, I also wanted to try being in a sexual environment like that once my sex drive skyrockets when I haven’t...

Its more about women finding out that you don’t have experience and getting turned off.

Yeah I know that’s the better option, but my biggest issue has been finding dates in the first place. As I’ve said on here before, its been 6 years since I’ve met any women. This has been really frustrating for me and I probably wouldn’t even consider this idea if I could actually meet women. I...

I’m trying to quit adult entertainment though, I’ve been addicted to it since I was 12. But whenever I try to quit, my sex drive eventually goes through the roof and I get frustrated since I know that I won’t be having sex anytime soon and I relapse. That’s why I thought this sex club would be a...

Yeah that’s what everyone else who’s been there has said if you’re thinking of going as a single guy: go in there not expecting to get laid. I just thought it would be a good place for me to practice approaching women since I have no experience doing so and the sexual environment might be...

That’s actually the exact reason why I revisited this idea in the first place. I’ve been trying to stop using porn and have made good strides with quitting lately, but sometimes my sex drive goes through the roof without that and mbating, then I start thinking that I’m probably not gonna be...

G Good question, he has never mentioned if he’s been to anything like this or with an escort. Who knows, I could walk out of it glad that I went, or just feel super awkward and leave shortly after getting in there. I heard that there are couples who go there to have sex in front of other people...

Yeah I’m aware that single men are the lowest on the food chain at sex/swingers clubs. I just thought it could help me become more comfortable with sexuality if I did go. This club actually has a forum of their own and there are couples who post on there and yes, they usually are looking to swap...

I’m definitely gonna do more research, but I don’t think that’s what it is. They’re just ordinary women who had to pay a door fee as well. I’ve heard that consent is a big thing there, so you just can’t go around touching people. I doubt you would have to pay a lot more once you’re inside...

I am aware that sex and love need to be separated and that sex does not equate true and lasting love. I never spoke to the girl I lost my virginity to again after the night it happened. I think there’s probably at least some sexual repression among all of us inexperienced men, and that’s exactly...

You definitely want to find a girl who likes you for who you are and I do believe that you should never pay with the expectation of getting laid, just go and have a good time. I just thought that going to this club could get me more comfortable with sex and provide me an easier environment to...

Yeah Yeah he told me to go on OLD and aim for the bottom of the barrel to gain experience. Awhile back, he actually did tell me to save up money and hire an escort for experience.

Honestly, the quality of women probably wouldn’t be the best because I’m sure most young hot girls wouldn’t go to a place like that. No I wouldn’t tell anyone in the club that I’m inexperienced, I would just go in and see what happens. These women aren’t sex workers or are getting paid money by...

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But aren’t you technically paying to get laid by taking women out on dates? I would like a meaningful relationship for sure, but I’ve been told by others on here that I need to go the casual route in order to get experience before trying to get a meaningful relationship.

I’ve been back and forth on this one for awhile now and I was wondering what everyone here thinks about this idea. So in my area, there’s a sex club (technically its a swingers club) and I’m tempted to go there and check it out. This place is a legit and licensed business that has been in...