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Yeah I know, its one of the main reasons why I'm still inexperienced in the first place. A lack of opportunities to meet single women can definitely keep a man inexperienced for longer, or push him into a dry spell that can last for years.

That's a good point. It can be easy to be set up through mutual friends via your social circle. A social circle can actually a pretty important thing for a man to have for that reason and for others as well. I do still live in the same area that I spent my K-12 years in, but I do not have any...

There’s no way to even meet women these days. OLD is a bust and cold approaching fails way more often than it succeeds. Its over for 99% of men

I mean, I would probably be more likely to try OLD even though I know that has a lot of downsides too. I just can’t let go of the opinion that as soon as a woman finds out that I have no experience, she’ll instantly lose interest in me. I’ve even read stories where guys around my age that are...

Did you ever experience PIED? (porn induced erectile dysfunction) I’ve been a porn addict for 16 years and I can’t even get it up with women even though I have no problem with porn and I’m worried that it’s gonna take a really long time to fix this.

Never have, don’t believe in its effectiveness. No women want to be a 30 year old guy’s first gf anyway, so it is what it is I guess.

I’ve been a porn addict since I was 12 (now 29) and its been a near daily habit all this time, I no longer have the ability to get it up with real women despite having no issues at all when it comes to watching porn. This addiction has destroyed me in so many ways, I’ve never had a girlfriend or...

I’m turning 30 this summer and never had a gf and only 1 date 8 years ago. I’m almost at that point now, just feels hopeless.

Yeah I would never put that in my bio, it was just a hypothetical question to see what everyone here would think the result would be if a guy was to do that.

Oh ok I thought you did say to have them leave, but maybe I just misread that. The problem is that my parents do hover quite a bit, usually I can’t grab my keys without them asking where I’m going and if I leave without them noticing, they’ll usually call/text to see where I went. I also can’t...

We are currently in a pretty similar place then, and it seems like neither of us are really trying to meet anyone right now. Hopefully this won’t hold either of us back when we put ourselves out there.

Well I should’ve mentioned that I’m actually in school for a certification program, but I forgot to. So at least I’m not a total NEET, but I do miss having a cash flow and I do want to figure something out (at least part time) in order to have some money coming in while I work on this...

That’s true, and things might get really ugly in society when its officially documented that half of the male population is getting laid while the other half is sexless. Yeah I’ve actually read posts online from women who have said that relationship experience is more important to them than...

Good point, the brother of my soon to be brother in law actually just recently got his first real gf at 31 and he broke up with her about a week ago after he found out that she was just using him and she was also still hooking up with her ex. So that definitely can happen, women like that can...

Yeah I saw that thread, I couldn’t believe it. That’s why I feel like a lot of guys are afraid to cold approach or do other in-person pickup methods these days. It really is becoming a pretty big problem though, 30% is a good sized chunk of the male population and I have a bad feeling that...

I agree with a lot of what you said, but the problem is that I have no career and I still live at home with my parents, so I would have to think of different things to say other than that. But those things are another reason why I don’t even actively try to date, living with my parents and...

What’s really bothering me is that I feel like I’m stuck in a catch-22 where I’m just gonna get rejected at every turn for having no experience, which I can’t get without having experience in the first place. I’m not really bothered by the fact that I lost my virginity in a ONS, I wanted it gone...

Your 4 points that you made are all solid, my biggest concern is still the chance of being asked by a girl about my past relationships and dating history since I’ve read stories of guys being asked about that and her instantly losing interest in him after finding out. I have a bad feeling that...

The 30 year old virgins whose stories I saw on Reddit were all asked by women about their past relationships and revealed that they had never been in one and also revealed that they were still virgins if that was also the case with them. They didn’t bring it up and volunteer that info about...

I obviously would never bring it up, and asking about putting it in a OLD bio wasn’t a serious question as I already said. But what about when she asks you? From all the stories I read from inexperienced guys on Reddit, most of them said that they were asked about their past relationships/dating...