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I mentioned this to another user in a previous thread awhile back, and I’ve had the idea to post this thread for months now. Since we’re practically in fall now, it seems like a good time. What made me wonder if anyone else thinks that fall is one the best times of the year for dating is that it...

The food shortages and famines definitely will make this fall season a lot different from the others, so it might live up to the hype for all the wrong reasons. I feel you on the month of September though, it really seems like the best time of year to get a gf (I actually wanted to make a...

Yeah I think its less dangerous or risky if you're trying to meet someone different versus just trying to hook up. I'm not sure if I would use AdultFriendFinder or not, seems risky and there could be a lot of setups on there. But maybe it isn't as bad if you do thorough vetting of your matches...

Unfortunately that's not an option for me. I am looking into taking some courses, but it will probably be online or at a trade school, which is a different social environment than a university campus.

I remember some of that type of porn back then in the 90's too. I remember back around that time, my family took a vacation to Vegas and I was drawn to those business card sized ads for escorts that have nude girls on them, even though I was just a kid. My parents noticed me picking them up off...

Its good to hear that the dating world didn't just chew you up and spit you back out for getting started with so little experience at a later age, what you said definitely does show that there will be ups and downs with dating regardless of what age you start at and how much experience you have...

Aiming for VS models definitely is going right for the moon, but I can kind of see where OP is coming from. There's a girl on insta that I follow and she has about 75K followers, I talked to her a couple times very briefly on her livestreams. Sometimes when I'm horny af, I get tempted to DM...

I don’t fully believe that myself, I’m just echoing what a couple of other users here on SS said on another thread. They said that white guys have such an easy time pulling Asians and Latinas that its like playing the game on cheat mode because of how much both of them like white guys. I don’t...

Because I have literally zero opportunities to meet any girls. In the past 5 years, I’ve only met 1 girl and I did like her and she was giving me pretty clear signals to make a move, but my mindset is just so negative and pessimistic that I couldn’t imagine any other outcome besides rejection...

How did you feel about getting started with dating in your 30’s? Did you experience any of the things I described where you felt bad about it or felt like a loser at all because of it? Aren’t those also learning experiences that you have when you’re dating in your teens and 20’s?

Well my equipment already fails now, it was actually failing back when I lost my virginity at 21 and its continued to be an issue. You see, I didn’t mention in my first post that I have a pretty severe porn addiction and its been shown that if a guy never transitions to real life sex and instead...

That’s a good one, I like that!

Well, the girl I lost my virginity to made all the moves and even asked me out before I could do it. There’s also been other times when women have been pretty forward with me by texting me first or approaching me to start a conversation. I don’t know if that makes me Chad-ish tier or not, but I...

I see your point with that, they wanna make sure you aren’t just a fu*k boy I guess. But there probably is ways to play it off without revealing much I’m sure, women like when a guy is a little mysterious anyway, so I’m sure its not hard to get away with that.

No problem man, and I really appreciate you telling me all of this because I definitely needed to hear it. I can see your point about having to cherrypick who you listen to on this forum, I’ve noticed that some guys on here are total doomers who will pretty much say that there’s no hope for...

Yeah I’ve heard from some guys who have said that they’ve never had women ask them about their dating history or past relationships and some others have said if they ever do, there’s a good chance they won’t ask until after they’ve already slept with you. So who knows, maybe they won’t ask if...

Yeah I agree with you on that, its always a red flag when they don’t list their hourly rate up front. This one specializes in guys who have no dating experience at an adult age and he’s posted some videos to YouTube where he speaks at length on that subject and he addressed a lot of the same...

Their paid hourly rate is listed on their website, its $100 per hour after the free hour and he sometimes runs discounts on his paid hourly rate.

Thanks @Modern Man Advice this is probably the best advice that has been given to me on this thread, just joined your follower list on here also. I just feel really bad and discouraged by the fact that I’ve never dated when I’m nearly 30 and I can’t help but feel like its too late for me at this...

But I don’t want to start dating after I officially enter my 30’s because I’ll feel like too much of a loser at that point for not getting any until I’m in my 30’s. I’ve said to myself for awhile now that if I enter my 30’s in the same situation I’m in now, I’m just gonna fu*k escorts for the...